Monique Samuels details abuse from ex-husband Chris Samuels
*Reality TV star Monique Samuels is speaking out about the abuse she says she suffered in her marriage to former NFL player Chris Samuels. During a December 2025 appearance on Angela Yee’s “Lip Service” podcast, the reality TV star shared painful details from their 11-year relationship. Their divorce was finalized in September 2023, and the couple shares three children.
On the podcast, Monique described a disturbing moment when Chris allegedly “grabbed and lifted her by the throat” in front of others. She admitted she once rationalized his behavior, saying, “I did kind of egg it on,” but added that abuse had become normalized from what she saw growing up. The incident, she said, is one of many she outlines in her upcoming book.
Podcast claims highlight toxic marriage and harmful parenting
Monique Samuels’ abuse claims also touched on emotional harm done to their children. She accused Chris of speaking inappropriately to the kids and twisting stories to make her look bad. These moments, she said, made her rethink staying in the marriage for the sake of family.
She explained that her idea of what marriage should be kept her stuck in a painful situation. Monique said the relationship took both an emotional and physical toll on her, and staying silent for years made things worse. Her revelations have shocked fans who followed her journey on reality TV.
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Chris Samuels accused of leaking video of Monique and new man
Monique also dropped another bombshell during the interview—she claims Chris leaked a private video of her and new boyfriend Jason Weems. Jason, a former radio co-host, became romantically involved with Monique after the divorce. The video shows them hiking and riding in a car.
Monique believes the leak was meant to make her look unfaithful and damage her reputation. She said it was a low move, especially since they had already separated. She also revealed that Chris is not paying child support, and she is covering most parenting costs.
Return to ‘RHOP’ brings more drama and fresh rumors
Monique Samuels recently returned to “The Real Housewives of Potomac” as a friend of the show in Season 10. Her reappearance has reignited old drama, including new rumors involving Chris and co-star Stacey Rusch. Castmates Keiarna Stewart and Ashley Darby suggested Stacey reach out to Chris to stir trouble.
Monique denied the drama affects her, saying, “He’s my ex for a reason.” In the season trailer, Monique reflects on her personal growth and admits to lacking “emotional intelligence” earlier in her RHOP days. Her scenes focus on moving forward, not looking back.
Fans react to Monique’s shocking abuse claims
The podcast clip quickly spread on X (formerly Twitter), sparking major conversations about abuse in celebrity relationships. Fans expressed outrage and sympathy. One viral post read, “Monique saying Chris picked her up by the neck. Omg he needs to be in damn jail #RHOP.”
Viewers also pointed out past RHOP scenes that now seem like red flags. Some recalled Chris embarrassing Monique on camera. The revelations have sparked wider discussions about toxic relationships shown on reality TV and the difficulty women face leaving them.
Inside Monique and Chris Samuels’ rocky relationship
Monique and Chris joined “The Real Housewives of Potomac” in Season 2 back in 2017. They left the show after Season 5 in 2020, following a headline-making fight between Monique and co-star Candiace Dillard Bassett. That clash led to mutual assault charges, which were later dropped.
After RHOP, the couple starred on OWN’s “Love & Marriage: DC” in 2022. Monique filed for divorce in April 2023, citing irreconcilable differences. She has since focused on parenting, podcasting, and her businesses. Her new book will reveal more details about their split.
Why Monique Samuels’ story matters to fans
Monique Samuels’ abuse story adds to the growing list of reality stars opening up about domestic violence. Her decision to speak out shines light on the pressure women face to stay silent, even when they are suffering behind the scenes.
As of December 3, 2025, Chris Samuels has not publicly responded to the claims. No legal action has been reported. For those facing abuse, help is available. The National Domestic Violence Hotline offers 24/7 support at 1-800-799-7233.
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