*Looking to add a new twist to your intimate life? Temperature Play might be worth exploring.
As MadameNoire reports, citing SELF, this involves using hot or cold objects on sensitive areas of the body to heighten sensations and create a unique experience during intimacy. This practice stimulates nerve endings in erogenous zones, leading to heightened arousal and excitement. For instance, placing a cold item, like ice, on areas such as the nipples or genitals can create a thrilling, tingling sensation. Alternatively, a warm object, like a heated towel or spoon, can provide a comforting and relaxing effect.
“There’s a threshold where, if something hurts a little bit, then pleasurable endorphins can also get released,” author and sociologist Jennifer Gunsaullus told SELF.
“When we’re talking about warm play, it’s a similar principle as taking a hot bath, so it can be really relaxing,” said sex and relationships psychotherapist Gigi Engle.
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Per SEL, below are some tips for Temperature Play:
Hot Play Ideas:
- Breath Play: Exhale warm air over sensitive areas like the neck, inner thighs, or genitals to create warmth.
- Warm Oil Massage: Heat massage oil (not too hot) for a relaxing and sensual experience. Use warm massage stones for added stimulation.
- Massage Candle Wax: Use body-safe massage candles that melt into warm oil for sensual massages. Avoid genitals for safety.
- Warm Fabric: Heat a silky scarf and drape it over your partner’s body, or use it as a blindfold to heighten sensations.
- Heated Toys: Warm stainless steel or glass sex toys in hot water for added sensation during use.
- Warm Household Items: Heat small metal items like spoons, lubricate them, and gently glide them over erogenous zones like nipples or thighs.
Cold Play Ideas:
- Ice Cubes: Run a piece of ice over sensitive areas like the nipples, or use chilled lips for kissing and oral play.
- Chilled Toys: Cool glass or metal sex toys in icy water or a refrigerator, but avoid freezing to prevent injuries.
- Cold Household Items: Use cold metal or glass objects (e.g., spoons or jade rollers) on erogenous zones for a refreshing sensation.
The article suggests alternating between hot and cold sensations, such as using a warm and cold spoon together, while ensuring ample lubrication to prevent discomfort and maintaining open communication with your partner for a comfortable and enjoyable experience.
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