*Jennifer Lopez opened up about her first two marriages and why she feels they “don’t count” in a new YouTube video.
The actress/singer, who’s currently engaged to Alex Rodriguez, said her marriages to Ojani Noa from 1997-98 and Cris Judd from 2001-03, were too short and she was too young, so therefore, they’re a non-MFing factor (as Jackie Christie would say).
“I’ve been married three times: once was nine months and once was 11 months. So I don’t really count those,” she said.
Adding, “I was married to Marc [Anthony] for 10 years with the kids. I was very young the first two times I tried to get married — I’m saying tried to get married.”
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Speaking of Marc, the pop icon recently took to Instagram to share some kind words for her ex-husband, with whom she shares 11-year-old twins, Emme and Max.
“Happy Fathers Day to you Flaco!!! Emme and Max love you soooo much!! Thank you for these two beautiful coconuts!!!” Lopez captioned a slideshow of family photos and video, including a photo of Anthony, their son, and Alex Rodriguez hanging out together. “Feliz Día Del Padre!!!”
In the new YouTube video in which she takes fans behind-the-scenes of her “It’s My Party” tour, Lopez admits she got married for the wrong reasons in the past.
“It seems like in this life you’re always surrounded by people so you’re never lonely but it’s very lonely,” she said.
“So I felt like if I got married, then I would always have somebody, but that’s not how life works. That’s not how it goes. It’s bad reason to get married,” Lopez said.
Meanwhile, a Lopez insider claims she and A. Rod have started to slowly plan their 2020 wedding.
A source tells PEOPLE the couple may opt for “a small family celebration that will, of course, include all four kids.”