Saturday, April 20, 2024

Is it ‘We are Family’ or ‘We Are Not Family?’… Inquiring Minds Want to Know

sister sledge
Sister Sledge

“In my case, being the youngest sister and singing most of the lead, I sometimes felt the repercussions of that.  You feel guilty, and you feel responsible for other people.  You feel it a little more when it’s your family.”    Kathy Sledge, former lead vocalist, “Sister Sledge.”                             

 “We are family, I got all me sisters with me.  We are family, get up everybody and sing…”

In 1979, the R&B/pop group “Sister Sledge,” comprised of sisters and Philadelphia natives Debbie, Joni, Kim and Kathy Sledge, struck pay dirt with the song “We are Family.”  The mega dance tune was a No.1 R&B hit in the United States.  The song, which became an international anthem for family love and harmony, was also a Top-20 hit in such countries as the United Kingdom, New Zealand, Canada, the Netherlands, Ireland, and Belgium.

READ RELATED STORY: KATHY SLEDGE OUSTED BY HER SISTERS FROM PERFORMING FOR THE POPE!

The Grammy Award-nominated group would go on to chart other hits such as “He’s the Greatest Dancer,” “All American Girls,” “Love Don’t  You Go Through No Changes on Me,” “Got to Love Somebody,” “Frankie,” “My Guy,” and more.  Kathy, the youngest of the Sledge sisters, sang lead on many of the group’s hits.  She left in 1989 to become a solo artist, while her three sisters continued to perform as “Sister Sledge.”

“It’s common knowledge that I don’t perform with my sisters anymore,” Sledge told EURweb’s Lee Bailey recently. “However, I would like to say that I’m not fighting with my sisters.  If anything, I do want to take part in the legendary brand that I helped build.  As it stands now, they have an inside company rule that I’m not allowed to say that I’m from, or, I’m of, ‘Sister Sledge.’  But, at the end of the day, nothing can ever change that I was a part of ‘Sister Sledge.”

 “Everyone can see we’re together as we walk on by…Hey and we fly just like birds of a feather…   I won’t tell no lie…”

kathy sledge
Kathy Sledge

Kathy is currently celebrating her 27th year as a solo artist.  Earlier this year, she charted “Keep it Movin’”, a single which reached No. 2 on Billboard’s Dance Club Music Chart.  The song is a collaboration with the “Aristofreeks” (International DJs and Electronic Dance Music producers Max Martire and Shanti Matkin).  Sledge, Martire and Matkin are planning to release a full album by the end of the year.

Kathy is also busy producing a show that she created called, “Brighter Side of Day.”  The production, as Sledge likes to call it, pays tribute to the legendary jazz singer Billie Holiday.  “Brighter Side of Day,” with Kathy as Billie Holiday, has received raved reviews.

READ RELATED STORY: ‘SISTER SLEDGE’ TO ‘ARISTOFREEKS’: KATHY SLEDGE ‘KEEPS IT MOVIN’ (EUR EXCLUSIVE)

“Additionally, Kathy has created a show called, “Kathy Sledge Presents My Sisters and Me.”  No, the show is not a reunion of the four Sledge sisters.  Instead, when Kathy sings the lyrics, “We are Family…I have all my sisters with me…” there’s a new meaning to what sisters are on stage.  Joining Sledge are female vocal stars Deniece Williams, CeCe Peniston and Karyn White.

“I love performing with these sisters on stage,” she said.  “One of the challenges that I had with my own sisters was it got to a place where they told me I couldn’t be the lead singer anymore. It got to a place where I decided to collect some of the most amazing female artists that I knew to perform with.”

 “(All) all of the people around us… they say can they be that close…”

So how close are “Sister Sledge” and Kathy Sledge these days?

When Pope Francis visited the United States last year, Philadelphia was one of his stops.  When “Sister Sledge” was asked to perform “We are Family” for the Pope, the group (Debbie, Joni and Kim) agreed to sing. Kathy didn’t perform with her sisters.

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Kathy Sledge

Billboard magazine reported at the time that a press release distributed on Kathy Sledge’s behalf  read, “Although the performance is being promoted as though all four original members of the group will be in concert, sisters Joni, Debbie and Kim have refused to allow youngest sibling Kathy, original member and iconic voice of ‘Sister Sledge’ to participate in the performance…”

 “Just let me state for the record, we’re giving love in a family dose

Just for the record, several years ago Sister Sledge, LLC (Debbie, Joni and Kim) gave Kathy a family dose of a stinging legal ruling, via a trademark infringement lawsuit for $200,000.  The lawsuit was settled for less.

Nevertheless, the lawsuit won by Sister Sledge, LLC made it clear that the three sisters owned the US trademark for “Sister Sledge.”  Thus, Kathy could no longer book tour dates as “Sister Sledge, featuring Kathy Sledge” or claim she is the only remaining member of the group.

“Living life is fun and we’ve just begun to get our share of the world’s delights.  (High) high hopes we have for the future and our goal’s insight…”

With such a storied recording career by “Sister Sledge,” it’s only natural for fans to hope a reunion is insight.  According to a United States District Court document filed three years ago, “Sister Sledge” has extended invitations to Kathy to rejoin and perform with the group.   Such overtures, according to the court document, have been rebuffed by Kathy.

READ RELATED STORY: SISTER SLEDGE, JENNIFER HUDSON, JUSSIE SMOLLETT TO HONOR SONGWRITERS HALL OF FAME INDUCTEES

Therefore, for now, Debbie, Joni and Kim continue to tour internationally as “Sister Sledge,” and Kathy tours internationally as a solo artist, who is now an Electronic Dance Music diva.

“At the end of the day, it goes without saying that I love my sisters,” said Sledge, who is not sure if there will ever be a reunion.  “Everyone has some madness in his or her family. Our madness happens to be under a magnifying glass. We have our differences.  Of course it (the business) overlaps to it being personal.  But, at the end of the day, we will always be family. I would like to think in our case, we’re coming to a healing.”

Kathy added.  “Adversity is supposed to propel you to become what you are supposed to be and where you are supposed to go. That’s what adversity has done for me.  So I want to see where this takes me. God takes you through some places to get to better places.  That’s how I feel.”

“(We) no we don’t get depressed. Here’s what we call our golden rule.  Have faith in you and the things you do. You won’t go wrong, oh-no, this is our family jewel.

 

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