*No need to worry, “The Real Housewives of Atlanta” stars Kandi Burruss and Todd Tucker can teach couples how to spice up their sex lives — justĀ in time for Valentine’s Day.
Tucker is the executive producer of Burruss’ popular web series, “Kandi Koated Knights,” which includes playing with toys from her line, “Bedroom Kandi.”
The couple shared advice on how others can get their freak on in the bedroom, sex toys and the stigma of sex in the Black community, according to The Huffington Post.
Kandi and ToddĀ started off talking about the holiday. They gave men and women advice on the do’s and don’ts for celebrating Valentine’s Day.
“I would say the first donāt is, donāt forget it. Donāt forget that itās Valentineās Day. A lot of guys will be like, āOh, I forgot. I didnāt realize it was coming up.ā Like, no!” BurrussĀ said.
She added,”at least make it a point to show your significant other that you care by at least remembering. Let your significant other be the first person you call that day. Or if youāre like we are, we obviously wake up to each other. So wake me up with a āHappy Valentineās Day, babe,ā something. Breakfast in bed ā¦ something to make me feel special as soon as I wake up.
“You might be right with the ādonāt forget.ā Because I think with the brothers, for us itās kind of like, āMan, Valentineās Day ā¦ You really want to celebrate that?ā Donāt downplay it. You gotta play it up. This holiday means a lot for the ladies, so we gotta put our best foot forward,” Tucker said.
He added, “you gotta go all out. And I think the biggest do is surprising her. Doing something thatās outside of the box and making it fun. I think we gotta stop seeing it as a femaleās holiday, and see it as, āMan, we get a little something out of this to if we make her happy.ā Donāt fight it, just be a part of it.”
Burruss shared her top three reasons why women should own a sex toy, and Tucker gave men advice on their partners wanting to introduce these toys in the bedroom.
“Well, first of all, for a woman, a lot of women canāt really tell their man ā¦ ācause women always wanna go, āOh, heās this.ā Or, āHe knows what heās doing.ā But a lot of times women donāt know their own bodies and they donāt know how to let someone know exactly what they want or what they like in the bedroom,” she said. “So I always feel like a woman should have some type of toy, just so she can explore her own body and find her own triggers and then she could share that with whoever her significant other is.”
She added, “itās hard for some women to have an orgasm. A lot of people donāt know that a majority of women havenāt experienced an orgasm just from penetration ā¦ so itās just about adding spice to the bedroom and doing something different. Because I think a lot of people, when theyāve been in a relationship for so long, they get so used to the same routine, so if you could just throw something different in there every now and then, I think itās always better.”
“I hear guys say a lot of times, āI donāt do that toy thing.ā Itās just like, man, itās fun, itās stimulating your lady. Itās about her happiness as well as yours, cause you know we gonna get ours regardless. So itās kind of like, just be open-minded and enjoy it,” he said.
He added, “and know that youāre pleasing your lady. And itāll be funā¦ But I think the ladies gotta take their time with it, too. You canāt just come in the bedroom with four toys and be like, āHey, letās try something different.ā Especially if you know your dude isnāt that open to it. Start off with something thatās not so crazy. āCause I think in some of our communities sex toys are kind of taboo, and āyou donāt really do that,ā and itās like, nah, this is what itās about. Exploring and making your mate happy.”
Tucker and Burruss also opened up about the stigma of sex talk in the black community. Read more at The Huffington Post.
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