Friday, March 29, 2024

Kandi Burruss, Todd Tucker Give Valentine’s Day and Sex Advice

kandi-burruss-todd-tucker2*No need to worry, “The Real Housewives of Atlanta” stars Kandi Burruss and Todd Tucker can teach couples how to spice up their sex lives — justĀ in time for Valentine’s Day.

Tucker is the executive producer of Burruss’ popular web series, “Kandi Koated Knights,” which includes playing with toys from her line, “Bedroom Kandi.”

The couple shared advice on how others can get their freak on in the bedroom, sex toys and the stigma of sex in the Black community, according to The Huffington Post.

Kandi and ToddĀ started off talking about the holiday. They gave men and women advice on the do’s and don’ts for celebrating Valentine’s Day.

“I would say the first donā€™t is, donā€™t forget it. Donā€™t forget that itā€™s Valentineā€™s Day. A lot of guys will be like, ā€œOh, I forgot. I didnā€™t realize it was coming up.ā€ Like, no!” BurrussĀ said.

She added,”at least make it a point to show your significant other that you care by at least remembering. Let your significant other be the first person you call that day. Or if youā€™re like we are, we obviously wake up to each other. So wake me up with a ā€œHappy Valentineā€™s Day, babe,ā€ something. Breakfast in bed ā€¦ something to make me feel special as soon as I wake up.

You might be right with the ā€œdonā€™t forget.ā€ Because I think with the brothers, for us itā€™s kind of like, ā€œMan, Valentineā€™s Day ā€¦ You really want to celebrate that?ā€ Donā€™t downplay it. You gotta play it up. This holiday means a lot for the ladies, so we gotta put our best foot forward,” Tucker said.

He added, “you gotta go all out. And I think the biggest do is surprising her. Doing something thatā€™s outside of the box and making it fun. I think we gotta stop seeing it as a femaleā€™s holiday, and see it as, ā€œMan, we get a little something out of this to if we make her happy.ā€ Donā€™t fight it, just be a part of it.”

Burruss shared her top three reasons why women should own a sex toy, and Tucker gave men advice on their partners wanting to introduce these toys in the bedroom.

“Well, first of all, for a woman, a lot of women canā€™t really tell their man ā€¦ ā€˜cause women always wanna go, ā€œOh, heā€™s this.ā€ Or, ā€œHe knows what heā€™s doing.ā€ But a lot of times women donā€™t know their own bodies and they donā€™t know how to let someone know exactly what they want or what they like in the bedroom,” she said. “So I always feel like a woman should have some type of toy, just so she can explore her own body and find her own triggers and then she could share that with whoever her significant other is.”

She added, “itā€™s hard for some women to have an orgasm. A lot of people donā€™t know that a majority of women havenā€™t experienced an orgasm just from penetration ā€¦ so itā€™s just about adding spice to the bedroom and doing something different. Because I think a lot of people, when theyā€™ve been in a relationship for so long, they get so used to the same routine, so if you could just throw something different in there every now and then, I think itā€™s always better.”

“I hear guys say a lot of times, ā€œI donā€™t do that toy thing.ā€ Itā€™s just like, man, itā€™s fun, itā€™s stimulating your lady. Itā€™s about her happiness as well as yours, cause you know we gonna get ours regardless. So itā€™s kind of like, just be open-minded and enjoy it,” he said.

He added, “and know that youā€™re pleasing your lady. And itā€™ll be funā€¦ But I think the ladies gotta take their time with it, too. You canā€™t just come in the bedroom with four toys and be like, ā€œHey, letā€™s try something different.ā€ Especially if you know your dude isnā€™t that open to it. Start off with something thatā€™s not so crazy. ā€˜Cause I think in some of our communities sex toys are kind of taboo, and ā€œyou donā€™t really do that,ā€ and itā€™s like, nah, this is what itā€™s about. Exploring and making your mate happy.”

Tucker and Burruss also opened up about the stigma of sex talk in the black community. Read more at The Huffington Post.

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