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Dear Advice Chick, I met this guy at work who is 10 years younger than me. He has two kids by two different women. He is not with either of the women. He also works another job besides the one we work together but he never has time to take me out. When he comes over he falls asleep. He tells me he wants to be with me. Everyone that has met him says, “You don't like him, he's too young for you.” I feel like age doesn't matter. I'm getting tried of being alone and I'm trying to be understanding that he's working but what am i to do?
Advice Chick replies, Lah-oooser! He wants to be with you but he never has time to take you out? He comes over and falls asleep? He has two babies by two baby mommas? Age may not matter, but having a man around just because you’re lonely doesn’t cut it.
Please stop allowing this guy to come over and fall asleep at your house. If he is sleepy let his ass go home. A real relationship doesn’t consist of ole boy coming over with a liter of R.C. and a 3 piece white from Harold’s. Eating a cheap ass meal and doing the nasty does not a relationship make.
Eat, bump uglies, and sleep is the title of a cheap dollar store novel and should not be a chapter in your life. It doesn’t appear this guy is for you. See, having a real relationship makes you feel better, not bad. It leaves you confident, not confused.
Tell ole boy, “the fu*k stops here.” Don’t waste anymore time with him until he can show you that he is proud of you and wants to be seen out in public with you. He probably has unfinished business with his baby mommas and children as well.
Dear Advice Chick, Last year, I met a famous baseball player and instantly we hooked up. Even though I don't live in the same city as him (but I don’t live that far away), he sends for me a few times a month. When I visit him, things are wonderful. The problem is, he kind of has a reputation for being with a lot of women. But when we are together he is so sincere to me. He tells me not to believe everything I read or see in the papers. When I look into those eyes of his, it's hard to believe he is lying to me. I am in graduate school and he says he will move me up to be with him when I finish school next year. Am I being stupid and playing myself or should I just hang in there to see where this relationship goes?
Advice Chick replies,
People don’t get BAD reputations for their GOOD behavior. He sends for you a few times a month, right? What do the two of you spend the majority of your time doing?
Has he ever come to visit you? Have you met anyone in his family? Have you met any of his close friends? Are you and he ever seen in public?
You’re probably his sex buddy. You might be his friend. Don’t allow yourself to be his secret. Good luck, ma.
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