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Name:
Teigh
Comment: More details? I think not!!! This is just a verbatim account of what appeared in yesterday's newspapers...Much will be said about Usher today; whatever the case I'm glad for him that he did not get married. The only rumor I have not read here is that the girl allegedley isn't pregnant at all. It's amazing how everyone involved with Usher saw this train wreck coming and got off..and it took him until the 11th hour to stop the train. Better late than never. If it's true that he didn't know about her past then he is about a dum a s s or did it take someone to tell him that apparently the IRS is investigating this girl. This really isn' humiliating for her, based on all accounts this broad was suspect from the beginning. There are those who say this is all publicity for his new album -- I think not from what I hear it's not even finished. Usher needs damage and image control like six months ago. He desperately needs out of the spotlight like for the rest of this year!!!
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nightshift
Comment: I love all this scuttle-butt!!! Too bad there's an innocent baby(hmmm) caught in the middle. Teigh you can look at her and tell she's 100 miles of bad road. 3 children, you know that "cat-trap's skidds been greased and stood at the ready!!
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Sweet_Mutima
Comment: I am not a fan of either Usher or Tameka but come on let them be. Whatever issues that are going on between them is just that between them. There has been so much media hype around them leading to their nuptials and well it did work out so what. I am disappointed at they way the media has crucified Tameka even Usher - I hope they are not reading whats being written about them because even with tough skin it can still get to you
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ChocolateBrownGal
Comment: It appears that Tameka's wedding procession song should be "She's A Fake!" Seriously....Who gives a ratz azz? If it's a mistake, it's there mistake to make! NEXT!
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Teigh
Comment: ChocolateBrownGal> and if Usher came to his senses then he is singing the MJ hit "She's out of my life"
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McNasty
Comment: . . . yeah with a little kick to it!lol Who didn't see this coming?!
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MOTHERSHIP
Comment: I am so very glad that this charade was called off. You don't throwaway the most important people in your life for for some ten-minute puzzy who did not have your best interests at heart to begin with. I would like to think that Ursh listened to reason, his family and his fans who saw through this heffa like a transparent Gladd bag!! He saved himself the grief that was to come later. God works in mysterious ways!!
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Mimi
Comment: I'm with you Sweet. Whatever th reason(s) people are hurting here, and that's never good. Of course I want to be all up in the business, but I don;t get any joy out of anyone's pain.
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MOTHERSHIP
Comment: Nobody wanted to see Ursh in pain, and that's why folk had to let him know if he didn't see. On "Confessions" he sang about wantedin' "Bad Girl," hell, he damned sure got one. I hope this will be a learning experience for him to peep people a little more deeper and trust the instincts of his true people because he was damned sure saved a future of serious headache and heartache and embarrassment, because ol' girl damn sure would have been an embarrassment.
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PBF_19
Comment: >Mimi...I'm with you though I thought she is a bad choice for Usher, I don't get any joy out anyone's Pain. I hope both parties are ok. There is also a rumor that Usher is doing this for publicity. I hope that isn't true.
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butterpecanrican
Comment: Wow...
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PBF_19
Comment: Teigh...I agree with you too, He definitely needs to take a break from the public eye. When he wrote that letter to a magazine, he made the public scutiny worst. He needs to keep his mouth shut and take a vacation from the public and media. He is overexposed.
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Babygurl
Comment: Not surprised at all...
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Exmun
Comment: 100 posts by 12:00 Noon EST.
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musbdherbs
Comment: This is a good sign for all young, successful brothas out there like myself: It shows us than older, divorced, black women w/kids is just not marriage material. Thun was right! Old puzzy don't mean good wives. Good for him. USH FOR PRESIDENT!
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Closet_Nerd_Girl
Comment: >musb, "...It shows us than older, divorced, black women w/kids is just not marriage material." I hope you are joking!!!! THIS PARTICULAR woman turned out to be bad news, but you can't paint ALL older, divorced black women w/kids with the same brush. I happen to know several older (which is a relative term), divorced black women with kids who are upstanding individuals. I also know some single (never married), younger (which is relative) black AND non-black women with no kids who are scandalous. Heaven forbid (if you have sisters or will have a daughter one day) that a woman who is close to you gets married, has children and later divorces. Does that mean she will not deserve to find someone who loves her and get married again, even if that someone is younger than her? That's a terrible indictment to wish upon anyone.
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ChaCha
Comment: Um "Before the babybum"? Yo Usher, I think it's waaaaaaay too late for that. Maybe 2-3 kids ago.
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HarrisThomas
Comment: [chuckle] musb, some of us don't know when you are trash talking
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MOTHERSHIP
Comment: Runaway groom Usher is headed back into his mama's arms.
A day after the last-minute cancellation of his Hamptons wedding to pregnant fiancée Tameka Foster, the Grammy winner was bound for Atlanta to make peace with his estranged mother, Jonetta Patton, sources told the Daily News.
"The reason he called off the ceremony is that he couldn't go through with it without Jonetta," said one insider. "He had an eleventh-hour epiphany."
The source said the 28-year-old multiplatinum R&B star was expected to fly home yesterday to Atlanta, where his mother lives. It wasn't known last night whether the 38-year-old Foster, who is expecting his child in the fall, would be traveling with him.
The nuptials appeared to be going full-steam ahead late last week. After some negotiation, Foster had signed a prenuptial agreement, according to people close to the singer.
"Usher conceded to some of her terms," said one source.
On Thursday night, he had his bachelor party. But, on Friday, "he started having second thoughts again," said a source. "He was obviously troubled that Jonetta wasn't coming."
For weeks, it had been unclear whether there was a wedding hall big enough to hold Patton and Foster, who've long been at odds. Last week, sources said, Foster agreed that Patton could come to the wedding - but, by then, Patton had resolved to stay in Atlanta.
"Usher woke up on Saturday and said he couldn't go through with it," said a source. "Apparently, he also couldn't bring himself to call all the people who were invited. He had the wedding planner call everyone in the wedding party."
The word also went out to stunned guests who were about to board a shuttle bus from a nearby inn to the Sagaponack estate of Island Def Jam chief Antonio (L.A.) Reid.
Foster was furious: "She was marching around, cursing," said a source.
Foster, a divorced mother of three, had at one point worked as Usher's stylist only to be forced out by his manager-mother.
Later, she won a more important place in Usher's life, as his girlfriend, and started crossing swords with several of his longtime friends and handlers.
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MOTHERSHIP
Comment: Shortly before Mother's Day, Usher announced that Patton, who had guided him toward superstardom, would no longer be his manager. Usher denied that Foster planned to take over the role Patton once held.
This month, Usher wrote an open letter in People magazine, declaring "I am not being led" by Foster. That letter prompted AOL Black Voices columnist Jawn Murray to call upon Usher to make up with Patton, or risk alienating his fan base of women. "You only have one mother," wrote Murray, whose letter Usher is said to have read last week.
Also factoring into the crisis was a National Enquirer story alleging that Foster had served time for petty crimes and had once dated a drug dealer killed in an ambush.
The story quoted Foster's half-sister, Valencia Foster, as saying, "Poor Usher has no idea who he's marrying."
Valencia Foster also said Tameka had threatened to ban her mother from the ceremony - because she had lost her false teeth!
"Tameka told her: 'You're not coming to my wedding without teeth.'"
Usher's rep, Patti Webster, did not immediately return a request for comment.
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soulmusic101
Comment: Exmun...LOL
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unclekipper
Comment: i had the fortunacy to meet and work with usher just before his 'my way' project.
he was the perfect young gentleman who absolutely treasured and respected his mother, ms. johnetta. while i'm sure he is now a grown man and making decisions on his own, i'm sure he still loves and adores his mother even through all this difficulty.
let's pray for him and his family that this whole issue is resolved to the best for everyone involved.
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4mybabygirl
Comment: By the time this story make to the next website it will be even more different. Every site has a different story! Now, she has three kids with her husband. Two othe sites says two, and one by the guy that died. What I'm going to tell you folks next remember I said so! The baby is not Usher's!! Just like the YBF website said. Usher decided he was making a fools move.
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gingerg
Comment: This is a tough situation. I know Usher loves his mother and she has done a great deal for him. However, he is a grown man who will have to make his own decisions in life at some point. I agree with mama about Tameka, but what if she doesn't like the next one. And you know there is going to be so much drama with the baby (her first grandchild even).
I love my mom, too, but if her advice isn't on point, I don't take it. We have that type of understanding. She can be very controlling if I allow her to be, but I've made it clear that she can run other folks life, but not mine.
I'm comfortable with that.
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gingerg
Comment: If you're having reservations about the wedding, call it off a couple of weeks in advance. Don't put the bride, family or guests through this at the last second.
Also, I would stomp Valencia's arse for that Enquirer story whether I did all the stuff she said or not.
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ChocolateBrownGal
Comment: Either Eddie Murphy or Howard K Stern is the baby's daddy! *shrugging shoulders*
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MOTHERSHIP
Comment: 4mybaby, I don't think the baby is Ursh's either. This chick has been around and it ain't nothin' this heffa wouldn't perpetrate. I been seen the snakishness in her. Straight up barracudda!! I'm just glad he came to his sense. You don't drop folk who had your back for years. And any woman who had your back wouldn't want you to either. That right there would have brought antennae up!
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khufu
Comment: is there a perfect Black woman? One unscathed?
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musicexec
Comment: MOVING ON....sheesh...
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khufu
Comment: DIdnt Ben Vereen have drug problems?
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khufu
Comment: and what percentage of Black women would YOU suppose are like Tamika? The majority or the minority?
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khufu
Comment: and are not MOST of the young ladies in Usher's age range and in hip hop culture lifestyle like Tamika? ANd why are folks so hard on food stamp recipients?
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mat212
Comment: Hey wait!! There's gay stuff missing isn't there? I mean what is this storyline without a little "gay" something thrown in....
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DCGG
Comment: I'm so sick of hearing bout these two fuvkers...get married, divorced, roll around in pig shyt, I don't give a fuvk...
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archcookies
Comment: I don't think this was a publicity stunt at all. Finally someone has gotten through to Ursher not to marry this trollop. I know he is a grown man but when the majority of the people who love you object to you marrying someone you need to listen. Tameka had that prize winning trout right up to the net and he slipped off the hook. Ursher, you don't need to prove your manhood be who you are and cut your beard off, if you don't you could end up in the poor house, this skank is a straight up hoochie/hoodrat.
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Sexee
Comment: Tameka has an "untrustworthy" demeanor about herself. She looks as though she's scheming at every possible moment.
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musbdherbs
Comment: HarrisT..lol..I guess you're right. ClosetNG: We don't have any evidence that THIS PARTICULAR woman is bad news. What we do know is that she's a recently divorced black woman w/3kids who looks like a man. I didn't say it..black men didn't say it. Black women on here and throughout the many call-ins have villified her w/out an oz of evidence or regard for the truth. *speaking of oz..cough..nevermind* But what I was sayin was, she has been villified and it has nothing to do w/anything she's done. Certainly we're not relying on the media for facts. If there is any truth to this story, somebody needs to bytch slap the shyt outta him AND his momma.
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khufu
Comment: SEXEE is that demeanor you pick up on anything like the "Black woman attitude" so often picked up on by many?
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musbdherbs
Comment: Please note: Archcookies called her a TROLLOP! See what I was saying about what black women did. Thank goodness I ain't hooked up w/somebody w/kids. WHEW!
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musbdherbs
Comment: And Sexee called her "demeanor" (outward manner) untrustworthy! See what I was saying bout what black women did again!
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archcookies
Comment: >mus come on now she is married to a man and start screwing Usher, if that ain't a trollop I don't know what is. No I don't know her and of course the media is very unreliable but I've lived long enough to know that if an individual cannot get along with your family especially your parents you need to pay particular attention to that. the child was doing alright with his mother as manager, she helped to get him to where he is today and Tameka wanted her out of the way. Something stinks about that, if his family weren't warming to the idea he at least needed to look at the situation closer. Whatever happened I'm glad he got out from under her spell.
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khufu
Comment: it;s interesting to see comments made by Black women about this sister.....in some cases, it's what others say and when others say it, those same Black women would crucify them for making the comments...go figure.
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Sexee
Comment: Khufu ~ When I see her I get uneasy. I've seen that behaviour under the sun (using my 30+ years wisdom). She's froward with how she handles things (which is not how you do things). She tends to alienate versus aligning herself with the key individuals in his life, which would in turn give her more power. Once you become an island, it will be difficult to defend yourself against the enemies attack.
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Sexee
Comment: So black women don't have the right to call a spade a spade? Give me a freaking break, if anything you need a WOMAN to help a MAN reveal a schemer's scheme. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to understand that 1+1=2.
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Sexee
Comment: I don't have a problem with her age (younger men pursue me aggresively knowing that I have a 16yr old). I don't have a problem with her having kids (What women with kids are not expected to remarry? puhlease).
I have a problem with how she's making this man into an island. It's a dangerous game for him and if she loved him & cares for him she would keep the two separate.
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javone77
Comment: I agree with some of the other posters here. From the day I saw her, I felt uneasy. I know my opinion of her doesn't count but she just always seemed shady to me. Any woman who leaves her husband and 3 kids behind for ANY man.......is no woman you want for your wife. I could halfway understand if the marriage was unhappy, but I haven't heard that was the case. But there is no excuse for those kids. Surely he didn't think she'd leave her husband for him and then turn around and decide to be faithful to him. It's so lame. I wish him luck though. Usher: CALL YOUR MOMMA! Nobody's gonna love you like her.
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TGen
Comment: Absolutely no comment on this maybe true-maybe not story. But can I just say DCGG, you crack me up EVEVRY time I read your comments! I look forward to them each time I come on this site. LOL
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Exmun
Comment: We're halfway there to 100 posts by Noon, EST... AND it's only 10:30 EST. Keep 'em coming. I got money ridin' on this.
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Closet_Nerd_Girl
Comment: >musb and Khufu- I don't expect you to remember posts from previous articles, but in the many articles printed about these two, I have been one of the few to speak out against what the women and men on the board have said about Tameka. I noted that if she had the "cookie cutter look" nobody would have had anything to say about her. Many were jumping on her because of how she looked alone- the fact that she was older, and divorced with kids just added fuel to the fire. I see no need to continue addressing the women and men on this board who attack Tameka based on her looks and 3 children and because of that Usher should not marry her. Now that this information about her possible criminal history has come out, if it is indeed true, then THIS PARTICULAR woman is bad news and it is not a good idea for Usher to marry her. Now, if she had told him about her past up front and he was OK with it, then that's a different story. But if she was trying to hide it from him (which is STUPID, all that stuff eventually comes out...) then all bets are off. Musb your original post on this board seemed harsh, it appeared to be an indictment against all divorced black women, and I commented on it. If you re-read my comment, I did take in account that you might be joking because sarcasm (sp?) doesn't always translate well in print.
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Stephanie
Comment: This was all a ploy from the outta no where sister to the cancelling of the wedding. They went somewhere and secretly wed. Usher's nose was too wide open for him not to go through with it. Either they got married a while ago or they did so secretly this past weekend. I don't believe one bit he called the wedding off because of her past. I also believe the sister was in on the hoax as well.
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Mas90
Comment: I believe that this marriage is all a setup.... marrying a woman who already has kids is a no-no when you don't have any kids and never been married. You should marry someone who has not been married and has no kids. Then grow together living as a couple for a few years without any kids. Who knows you may decide this marriage ain't working or you don't want kids, etc. People have kids way too soon. I think it is part of the reason why marriage fail. Children can change the way the marriage use to operate.
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B00TANEB00TUS
Comment: ...WTF?...Good thing he saw the light..Da he11 with his timing being off...This cat has been clowned by Tom Joyner, Morris, O'Kelly, some of ya'll on this board, Robin Givens ect...Yo, something like this happened to me before I became B00tane B00tus...I wuz dating this chick...I knew about the two kids she had...but everytime I visited her another dayum kid came peeping 'round the corner...She told me that they had been staying with grandparents...Yo, I musta counted 6 kids up in there...But her stuff was sooo dayum good I was blinded...I probably woulda stayed despite my friends objections but one nite after we made love she forgot to chew her gum....Come to think of it she was always chewing gum...I later found out that it was to hide cavity breath....Well this one nite she forgot and as she said good nite...I smelled the cavity breath...It was bad cavity breath...I rolled over and right then I planned my escape...At the crack of dawn I told her I was going out for coffee and the NY Times...I never came back...Her friends were furious with me...they said, "How could you do that and she's only good enuff for sex but not for a relationship"...Yes, the sex was dayum good...It made my toes curl...I was in my early 20's when this sh1t happened...Her cavity breath woke my azz up and I was outta there...I shoulda known sumthing was up...How many pairs of sneakers can two kids wear...It was like foot-locker up in there...Yo, can me crazy if ya wanna but now before I kiss any woman I smell her mouth...If I smell any cavities I'm outta there...because to me having cavity breath means you have a lot of kids that you trying to hide from a dude and that sh1t ain't right....
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Southernbelle
Comment: Maybe he found out that he and R. Kelly are messing with the same girl.
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khufu
Comment: CLOSET why should she have told him about her past brushes with the law?
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Deb70
Comment: BOOT-you are crazeeeee...lol...
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Shortey71
Comment: I cannot believe this sh.....
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pn2ppr
Comment: A BBQ! WTF!!! Now you know this chick is skrate, yes i said "skrate" off the ghetto wagon.
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dede0320
Comment: >>>Mas I really agree with what you said, I also believe that you should not marry and take care of someone else's kids and do not take care of your own, but that happens alot doesn't it...however, I have just been so surprised by Usher's actions regarding this whole mess, he does not seem like himself, as for Tameka, some of us on this board posting right now, have made mistakes..we all do and we all suffer the consequences for them, maybe at the time or maybe later, but that does not mean a person cannot change!!!!I think Tameka's sister was dead wrong for putting her business out like that, I am sure Usher knew that about her, if not then he is stupid for not doing a background check, but it would have behooved her to be truthful...I do not have a problem with her looks as I have said before, however I do have a problem, with both Usher and Tameka for being unfaithful while she was married to the other dude...I also have a problem with her coming between this man and his mother, if a man does not treat his momma right, do you think he will treat you right? to attack the way she looks , is what I observed about alot of black women is self hatred, I do not think she is physically uglier than Erica Reid, , she is just lighter..but I digress because I do not want to attack her looks either, God said he made everyone in his own image...to him everyone is beautiful and he makes no mistakes...but lets just see how this goes before we attack her...and rest assured on the yt websites they also have the same attitude when it comes to the white male stars, if the woman he is dating ot marrying is ugly to them or trashy they dog her out too..I think its just a woman thing...What a big mess...I hope the best for Usher and Tameka...there is a child involved...maybe?
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musbdherbs
Comment: Arch, we don't know the status of her marriage other than what the media reported. You also don't know how well she got along w/his family other than what the media reported. You don't know that Tameka wanted him to fire his mother. So, your criticisms are based on sketchy info at best. Speaking of determining trustworthiness based on seeing some'n on TV..Please keep in mind that Dr. Bill Frist (ex-senator from TN) medically evaluated and later determined Terri Schiavo was not in a vegitative state by looking at her on a video. Uhmm..that medical opinion didn't keep her alive. I guess we all have our strengths cuz a brotha sho can't determine how trustworthy somebody is by looking at them on TV. Let's just be real about this, people are "choosing" to believe what the media reported and none of ya'll know the story. Be a whore to the media why don't u! LOL@BOOT! CNG: yes it was sarcasm..lol What's the criminal thing again? Let me go back and read.
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Closet_Nerd_Girl
Comment: >Khufu because it's the right thing to do. If I were dating a man and he wanted to marry me, I would want to know up front if he had a record, not after I said "I do." Because if he would hide that from me, he would hide other stuff. Depending on what his record is, I may be OK with it and marry him anyway. It's the fact that he is hiding it that would upset me. Also, I want to know for my own safety reasons. If he did time for rape, drugs, spousal abuse, child molestation, or something like that, then I need to have the opportunity to decide if I want to risk spending the rest of my life with him. (I would RUN the other way, but I want that opportunity.) At any rate, if Tameka does have a record, then she should have told Usher about it. He may have been OK with it. He deserves the opportunity to decide if he wants to deal with it.
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QueenCityBee
Comment: I couldn't even finish readin this crap.It's all sounds like a bunch of gossipy bullshyt. Ain't noway Usher would get married and his momz not bee their, just tant noway. I wouldn't care what they were going thru.
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Exmun
Comment: @BOOTANE - First the Cosby "on blast" posts and now this: "because to me having cavity breath means you have a lot of kids that you trying to hide from a dude and that sh1t ain't right...." LOL! I almost fell out of my chair.
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Closet_Nerd_Girl
Comment: >musb- It's all good! >BOOT- LMBAO!!!!
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Closet_Nerd_Girl
Comment: >musb, here's the link to the EUR from Saturday where Tameka's sister claims that Tameka is an ex-con. I'm sure a little digging in the public records could verify if she's lying ot not, but I'm not about to take the time to do it. LOL! http://www.eurweb.com/story/eur35433.cfm
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dede0320
Comment: Boot>>>that was funny...LMAO at work!!!you gon git me in trouble!!!Boot , what if she just does'nt have good dental insurance? I gonna check back for your answer...LOL!!!!
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soulmusic101
Comment: LOL...at everybody comments including DCGG and MusB...EXMun I have $100 riding on this...Congrats to Eddie and Tracey (with her phoine self)...HaHa...I can't wait to hear Usher's take on this for his next CD. I have the perfect title for the new CD, either "Drama" or "My Bizness" will do just fine....
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khufu
Comment: hmmm so CLOSET what would you hide from a man? If you had had sex with, let's say, 50 men--would you automatically tell him? Or if you had had several abortions? Im not attacking..im sincerely asking......
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Mas90
Comment: DeDe....Yeah this doesn't seem like Usher actions, I agree. That's why it comes off so fishy. Justin Timberlake ain't going this far. I mean like damn Urshr brign it down a notch. If I was him I just keep making music. And if any you punks got sumthin' to say you just get ignored.
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khufu
Comment: also CLOSET I can understand her telling ISHER because it might cause bad publicity for him at some point...other than that, if she has a brish with the law and it was in the past and she was different...what would it matter?
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VeeCee
Comment: I knew that Momma had her hand in that cancellation...*snicker*
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eyesley
Comment: Yeah, if Momma ain't happy, ain't NOBODY happy!!
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DOne
Comment: 1. People are basing their opinions about this women on what gossip columnist are saying.
2. As a parent, if you don't like who your child plans to marry, the most your should do is state your opinion once and then leave it alone.
3. Even if she is only after his money, she could take half, he would probably still have more than any us commenting on this will ever see in our lifetimes.
4. Name a child star managed by their parents who hasn't fired the parent after they become an adult. Odds are even if Usher had never met this woman, sooner or later he was going to fire his mother; its call growing up.
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khufu
Comment: DOne....I dont sgree with your point # 2
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bigheadbull2
Comment: RUN FORREST !!!!!!
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soulmusic101
Comment: DOne...even Janet and Michael had to let Papa Joe know that we still love you Pop's but we wanna take it to the next level...
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musbdherbs
Comment: Now I'm really confused and slow! Is the girl an ex-con cuz she hooked up w/a drug dealer or because she had food stamps in here purse? Either way, Valencia needs to be knocked the fk out! Always a damn family member or close friend. See what happened to Vick!!!! lol
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SmoothMahogany
Comment: Questioning Foster's trustworthiness or lack there of is one thing, but I don't think she should be criticized for mistakes she made as a teenager. We've all been caught up before in some way, some of us are old enough to know better and still have been caught up with the wrong type of guy.
Plus, now by the time a woman reaches Foster's age she may have a few kids and have been married before. That doesn't mean she's damaged goods or not marriage material.
As far as her physical appearance goes, she's an attractive lady--not beautiful, but she's definitely not ugly. Just because a man or woman is beautiful/handsome, that doesn't mean he/she is marriage material. Its not the surface, its what's underneath. I'm sure many of the women on this board even can attest to the fact that there are some fine men out there that are trifling as h@ll. I'm sure the men could say the same thing about some beautiful women.
I would truly hope that Usher is falling on his knees and asking the LORD for guidance on his situation, because this involves his mother (and yes you only have one), Tameka, and his unborn child.
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musbdherbs
Comment: *bytch slappin Ush's mom*!
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archcookies
Comment: >mus everything that we are discussing is media driven so that is the only parameter for our discussion. Regardless of the status of her marriage she was still married and messing around with Usher, that to me puts you on trallop lane. I am just glad the boy woke up and still has his money
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Exmun
Comment: Dang... only 78 comments by Noon EST. Lost money on URSH.
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DOne
Comment: Khufu, unless the person is planning to physical harm your child; there is little you can to do to stop the marriage, usually the only thing you do in situations like that is push your child into the other person arms even faster and away from you. You have to know when to step back and figure out things for themselves
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GHank
Comment: Here's a question for everyone. For those women on this board who are married.... Do you get along with your mother-in-law? My point is that if you had a son like Usher, would you have a lot to say about what woman he brings home?
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khufu
Comment: bravo SMOOTHMAHOGANY
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khufu
Comment: DONE..okay I have to agree with THAT
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deedeeVon
Comment: khufu - When women make comments about other women they direct the comment directly to the person. Black men tend to use a broad brush and paint all black women the same when they have a negative experience. I have a variety of friends that come in all sizes and colors and I have concluded that in every race, you have the good the bad and the triffling.
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gingerg
Comment: I agree with you on one thing, SmoothMahogany. Sometimes, we act like mid to late thirties and past is washed up and worn out for a woman. It apparently isn't for a man. These women still have life, desires, needs and the ability to love.
I think the real issue with Tameka is that she has three children and Usher is so much younger. He looks about 24 even though he's a few years older. People just can't see someone that age taking on the responsibility of a ready made family when he has so many other options. Presumably, someone else wants him.
One more thing, people have suggested that Chilli take him back. Why, because she's cute and acceptable? Well, she has one baby and he cheated on her.
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Closet_Nerd_Girl
Comment: >khufu- That was my point, if Tameka has a criminal record, then she does need to tell Usher because she was marrying Usher. She does not need to tell the world. Again, this is assuming that what her sister says is true. As for me sharing my past- we are talking about criminal records, not stupid, and most likely youthful, indiscretions. If I slept with 50 men before marrying my husband, the only thing I owe him is to take a HIV/AIDS test and let him know my status UP FRONT. He doesn't need to know how many men I've been with before I met him, and I don't need to know how many women he's been with before he met me.
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gingerg
Comment: I heard a woman on a radio program say something interesting recently when asked what she told her sons about the women they date. Her reply "If she can't use your comb, don't bring her home."
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Closet_Nerd_Girl
Comment: >deedee, "I have a variety of friends that come in all sizes and colors and I have concluded that in every race, you have the good the bad and the triffling." PRICELESS!!!!!
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Closet_Nerd_Girl
Comment: >Smoothmahogany and gingerg- cosign both your posts! Why is it OK for an "old man" to still want to have a love life but not for an "old woman" ???
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gingerg
Comment: I would beat the sister's azz, though. There was no point in telling all of that. She is worse than Bobby Brown's sister.
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musbdherbs
Comment: Arch..that's a good point. You would think that by now I would get over expecting people to be skeptical of what they hear in the media...lol Yeah that's a "me" problem. I'll concede. If a woman decided to become intimate w/a man if they were separated (even in spirit) I wouldn't put them in trollop lane. JMO! DEEDEEVON..lol..now you making excuses. Black women TEND to do the same thing as black men. GINGER>>IF she can't use your comb...yep, black people still buy into that.
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khufu
Comment: CLOSET could not her criminal record been a youth indiscretion?
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khufu
Comment: CLOSET could her criminal record not been a mistake/ ANd those examples I gave are all moral and ethical indicators are they not? SO why not tell your potential mate about your ethical and moral "Criminal record?"
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jess
Comment: While I don't appreciate some of the comments generalizing about older women with children, in this particular case, I would advise Usher to get a DNA test. This particular "older" woman is scheming and shady. And it was the "older" woman who is Usher's mother who knew that immediately. Think about it...how many times have we seen people do or we have done something our mothers advised us against only to come back later whining about "Mama you were right." They're older, they're wiser and they know a rat when they see one.
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khufu
Comment: DEDE I her you however that's not one hundred percent true...oftimes an indictment against an individual comes from a general view.....
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dcdouglass01
Comment: The wedding "was on again off again for the past few days. [Foster] was calling it off because she wasn't getting the things that she wanted...." How old is this "woman"? 37 or 12? Do yourself a favor Usher, and get as far away as you can from this girl. And on a side note, I find it intersting that DCGG doesn't give a "fuvk" about anything.
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khufu
Comment: also DEEDEE...or vice versa..if one donesnt know Tamika on a personal, direct experiential basis: what is one judging her on? Of all the people here who has posted something "negative" about her---how many can say that their %*$essment is actually based on direct experience with her? Or are their %*$essments based on their experiences with other Black women they know and who fit a particular mode/mold that Tamika also fits into or symbolizes?
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Closet_Nerd_Girl
Comment: >khufu- A youthful indiscretion and breaking the law are two different things. But when a youthful indiscretion leads into breaking the law, then it's different. If Tameka's criminal record (if she indeed even has one) was a result of a youthful indiscretion, then it's one and the same. I'm not saying she should not be forgiven for it or given another chance, I'm just saying that she should have been up front about it BEFORE hand and let Usher have the opportunity to forgive her or whatever. For him to find out about it like this is not fair to him.
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YLawdY
Comment: CTFU @ B00TANEB00TUS
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Exmun
Comment: Alright 101 by 1:30 EST. That damn Usher made me lose money. He and his triffling Ex-Fiance couldn't get 100 resonses in 4 hours.
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Mimi
Comment: It's been my experience that when people speak against the love interest, it draws them closer. Speak your peace, pray and let it go. I read an article where Tameka stated that although she and husband weren't officialy divorced (you know how we do), they were not together, and both were dating others. She also denied leaving her kids. It might all be a lie, but still, I feel for all of those involved (if any of it is true), because it is so emotional. Everyone does get one mother, but everybody grows up, and Mama can't live anyone's life but her own --and sometimes adult offspring don't always do what we want. (how many of us waited until we got married!) Regardless, as long as respect between mother and child is there, that's the key,
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Gettogurl
Comment: If he marries that chick, he will be in for some 'Confessions' of his own. Homegirl will be singing to him in a minute. He will grow up real quick. He may not get along with his mother, but mom's are forever. Somethin' in the milk ain't right.
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butterpecanrican
Comment: *IF* this is true. its funny as hell!
From sandrarose.com:
I received this email from Tameka Foster about 4 weeks ago. Poor thing thought she would be Mrs. Tameka Foster-Raymond today. Once again she let her pettiness get in the way of grabbing that brass ring!
Initially I didn't believe Tameka sent this email because I thought taunting was so beneath her. I should have known better.
After confirming that the email did indeed come from Tameka, I decided against posting it on my site since that was what she wanted me to do.
Now that the circumstances have changed a bit (lol), I have decided to share Tameka's email with my readers after all.
From: Tameka Foster [email addy removed]
To: sandra@sandrarose.com
Subject: Sandra Darling
Date: Tue, 26 Jun 2007 01:12:33
Sandra Darling,
I love that you have given me so much coverage lately on your little website. It does my heart good with so popularity. You keeping me in the spotlight is exactly what I want and I would like to personally thank you and give kudos. Also, the wedding invitations will soon be in the mail, but unfortunately you will not be attending nor photographing it. Tah, Tah.
Thanks Doll,
Mrs. Tameka Foster-Raymond
PS: U**** sends his love
Sent via BlackBerry from Cingular Wireless
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dede0320
Comment: Khufu<<<you are right on point..I agree!!, but her sister is sorry, for doing that, she could have told Usher only, not the whole world, black families are not what they used to be, family just do not sell family out, that was wrong....how crazy!!!
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mrseoliver
Comment: It's funny actually, my friend's company designed and printed Usher & Tamika's wedding invitations and programs... She (my friend) told me that the wedding was called off b/c the Inquirer broke the news about Tameka being an ex-con (and of course) Usher did not know. What also came out was that Tameka may be pregnant by her ex-husband and not Usher, but who knows? My friend sold picture of the fiasco to People Mag so be looking for them on news stands... ( I know, I know she was wrong, but??)
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Mas90
Comment: MRSOLIVER... Tameka being pregnant by her ex-husband who also is in the music business sounds like the right tune to me. As far as People mag breaking the news of her past ex-con activity... PLZ!!!!! Usher knew. When you pick someone to be your fix you do all types of background check but knowing this he can keep from having to get married but makes him look appealing to a certain group of consumers. Come on ya'll this is Hollywood.
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musbdherbs
Comment: Mrsoliver. Both YOU and YO FRIEND need to have the simple shyt slapped outta ya'll! In fact, she needs to be fired, slapped and pushed down a flight of stairs! You just deserve to be bytch slapped and suffer a temporary (yet excrutiating) case of carpal tunnel syndrome.
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McNasty
Comment: EUR is printing stories dailey on this couple so why not just wait and see. Of course you can't believe everything you read but for damn sure you can piece together something close to the truth from all they do print. Otherwise - nothing here was worth 100+ posts.
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McNasty
Comment: ROTFLMBAO@Musb!!
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realuvbaby
Comment: If Usher was 38 and Tameka was 48, then I could see it working for the couple more. In just my own personal opinion, this woman is far too experienced for this young man who had never had a wife and never had a child. Then she brings in her ex-husband and three children into the mix. I read somebody said that two people need to be compatible and complement each other and that's what's missing from a lot of marriages and I agree. Compatibility is very important. Just because a person can make you sing opera and make your toes curl, doesn't mean that you are compatible outside the bed. You're just sexually compatible and everybody knows the sex is good when it's new. I believe when the age difference is this huge, it's mostly the SEX. The older person has the experienced body and the younger body has the energy. But sex is not love, and love is not sex and so many of us need to know that. Marriage should be based on love, not sex. Passion fades, and when your opera singing is reduced to a whisper and your toes don't curl, somebody's gonna be looking for that feeling. Personally, I just cannot imagine why Usher feels he could have made a life with a woman 10 years his senior who had already been someone's wife, had three children and had the wherewithal to get pregnant before she nailed the man and he could not make it work with a woman closer to his own age and had just one child, but never been married. This marriage seem unevenly stacked against Usher from the outset and I think people are are reacting to that. Especially after he started making personnel changes, which includes his mom. Yes people do grow up and fire their parent/managers all the time. But not everybody had a divorcee with three children and one on the way waiting in the wings. Something was definitely not right. And if she stepped on Chili's toes to get to Usher in the first place, then it's quite fitting that she don't get her way. What goes around comes around. And one word to all those who finds themselves with cheaters: SEND THE CHEATERS BACK HOME TO THE HUSBANDS AND WIVES THEY LEFT AT HOME. LET THEM CLEAN UP THEIR OWN MESS BEFORE DRAGGING INNOCENT PEOPLE INTO THE DRAMA. CHEATERS GO BACK HOME.
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MsVanese
Comment: GHank, I have 2 sons & YES, if I didn't like the woman, I would tell them. It is their decision whether they proceed further with the relationship, but I would at least have my thoughts out in the open. I would go to the wedding, kicking & screaming, but I would support them. I have told them about some of the women they have dated and will continue to do so, try to get along with her, but would beat the .... out of her if she got in my face *laughing* So be it if my sons didn't speak again, but I WILL NOT LET ANYONE DISRESPECT ME.
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bigchassie
Comment: MRSEOLIVER/MAS>People Magazine? shoot! this is gonna be on Entertainment tonight! unless it will be overshadowed by crazy %*$ Lindsey Lohan.
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musbdherbs
Comment: 'Nas...you know EUR go post a follow-up to this story as early as 2moro. It helps them meet their weekly number of webhits...
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Mas90
Comment: HERBS...you are wrong for that LOL. Fired, slapped and push down a flight of steps LOLOLOLOLOLOLOL! Just wrong.
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bigchassie
Comment: REALUV>you know that reminds me of what happened to me saturday night. this guy i knew that wanted to talk to me i found out he was married. he wanted to come over and "crash" at my place. i told him to go home to his wife. he promptly hung up the phone in my face. i laughed.
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Mimi
Comment: I heard Tameka was in the hospital
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Mas90
Comment: THIS IS FROM MEDIATAKEOUT.COM: July 30, 2007. Ever since Saturday, when the wedding of R&B star Usher and his pregnant fiancée Tameka Foster was abruptly canceled, news organizations have been speculating as to the cause. Some news organizations are reporting that the wedding was canceled because of Tameka's excessive demands. Others are claiming that Usher got cold feet. But MediaTakeOut.com has EXCLUSIVELY learned the entire wedding was likely an elaborate hoax!!!. And we've got the evidence to prove it.
You see, on Saturday afternoon there was another event scheduled to take place at the same time as Usher and Tameka's wedding. That event, a fundraiser for a charity called Art For Life, was being held at Russell Simmons' Hampton's estate.
And you'll never guess who agreed to chair the Saturday afternoon event - L.A. Reid. That's right, the same L.A. Reid that was supposed to be hosting Usher and Tameka's wedding at his home that very afternoon.
The invitation for the Art For Life event (see below) was being circulated as late as Saturday morning - and clearly shows L.A. Reid as one of the event's chairpersons.
And MediaTakeOut.com spoke with a person who attended the Art For Life fundraiser on Saturday. That person was puzzled on how L.A. Reid could have been in two places at the same time. The source explained, "When I received the invitation early last week, I was surprised when I read that L.A. Reid would be hosting the event - because it was all over the news that he was supposed to be hosting Usher's wedding." Our insider continued, "At first I thought that it was a misprint, so I called [the event organizer.] But she confirmed to me on Friday that L.A. Reid would be at the event."
And that's not all. MediaTakeOut.com can confirm that L.A. Reid did attend the Art For Life fundraiser - where he acted as one of the event's chairs (see the below photo). Our insider tells, "I got to [the fundraiser] at around 6:15 and [L.A. and Erica] Reid were already there - schmoozing it up with all the other guests ... The only explanation I have for this is that [L.A. Reid] knew all along that Usher wasn't getting married." I TOLD YA EARLIER THIS WEDDING WAS JUST TO MAKE SEEM LIKE HE WAS LIKE THE CONSUMER PUBLIC.
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gingerg
Comment: Mas, you know Media Takeout is a ghetto website and their "exclusive" doesn't prove a thing. I agree that this mess was a hoax, but not for the reasons offered by Media Takeout.
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gingerg
Comment: You told him right, Bigchassie. This guy was sweating me a few years ago. I agreed to have a drink with him. During the conversation, I posed a question and he was forced to admit that he was married, with children.
I politely told him thatI was not interested. To this day, if I happen to run into him at a social event, he will try to speak. I eventually had to start ignoring him so he would get the message. Now, he just stares.
I wouldn't want someone to do that to me, so I figure I should have enough self-respect to conduct myself accordintly.
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Mas90
Comment: Uh hu GIN, but I fould information about the Art life on another website with pics of LA Reid and others. I do agree mediatakeout is ghetto but they do get the truth too but just hateful and evil about it like Perez Hilton. Some people are just jealous.
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Keys_25
Comment: All she was was dollar signs. usher is YOUNG and she knew she could take advantage of him. Urs's momma wasn't having that! AND Tameka didn't want to sign the PRE-NUP!! (SO I HEARD) and you know what's up then.
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realuvbaby
Comment: bigchassie good for you!! Brotha sounds UTNG ! "UP TO NO GOOD"
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PBF_19
Comment: Mustbdherbs...You are funny but be real, if those pictures are going to really be in People Magazine you'll going to check it out. Shoot I know I will.
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gingerg
Comment: All I want to know is this. If getting pregnant before the wedding worked for Katie Holmes, why didn't it work for Kim Porter, Tameka and other sisters. This 27-year-old chick is set for life and didn't have to have six kids to get there.
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Exmun
Comment: LOOK PEOPLE... Chilli is not THAT much younger than Tameka Foster. Chilli's like 36... still 8 years his senior as opposed to Tameka who is 37. Now, I would agree that one child compared to 3 (and a divorce where the ink hasn't even dried) is a difference... but let's keep it real... folks thought Tameka wasn't classically "pretty" enough for Ursh... given that he is a top R&B/Pop Star with money and ... in theory... the world of beautiful women to choose from. The age difference alone is a significant issue that cannot be brushed aside... But all the comments about Ursh and Chilli being a better match are either based on a lack of knowledge or 'pretty girl' bias.
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Bumpa_Stank
Comment: Chilli is somewhere giggling her azz off....
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Name:
gingerg
Comment: Ush seems to be a bit abrasive. He might have to take what he can get.
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MsVanese
Comment: Gingerg, because Katie Holmes had enough since to have one by him,so far, unlike the others who decided to keep having babies even though they KNEW that they would not get a ring AND they knew the man was cheating on them with a "few" other women but opened their legs without protection. *music* Money money y’all. It be the root of all evil. Money money y’all
It makes you popular with people. *music*
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Deb70
Comment: Exmun, you made an excellent point. Chili is about to hit 37 her dang self in less than a year, so I don't understand the comment about her being closer to Usher's age. They just "looked" better together because Chili looks young and yes, in general she's considered more attractive than Tameka.
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bigchassie
Comment: GINGERJ>yeah gurl, that man was a trip!
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Mas90
Comment: GIN... The reason is because Katie agree to have the child as long as TOm help her acting career blow up which is currently working on a film. Look at Nicole Kidman and Penelope Cruz. Both actress career were nothing until after Tom dated them. Arrangement.
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mrseoliver
Comment: musbherbs..... first MY FRIEND OWNS THE COMPANY...SO NO SHE WILL NOT GET FIRED!! And If you don't know Tameka nor Usher you really can not speak on it can you??? No. Obviously, my friend must know the couple if she was there (not just in the form of a delivery but as a guest). If you were not their (and I'm sure you weren't) then shhhhh! Secondly I never said that she was right for selling picture I said "I know, I know she's wrong." right??? So I am not upholding her actions in any way. Thank you!
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Mimi
Comment: I guess the word is they are still a couple and she is in the hosital because of pregnanay complications. Maybe that's why they called it off?
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realuvbaby
Comment: Exmun. If you are speaking about me, I will tell you that no one has EVER heard me speak about how Tameka looks. And I stand by my opinion. It's just my opinion. 8 years age difference is still less than a 10 year age difference. When Tameka turns 40, can you see her "submitting" to her husband. A woman who has already been a wife and already kicked a husband to the curb? Too many people think of today. What about tomorrow? So many people talk about the ceremony. I'm talking about the marriage. Tameka will just have to hold on a little longer before she becomes Mrs. Raymond, that's all.
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Exmun
Comment: realuvbaby, I agree with you on the age difference and the fact that this woman has been married (and only very recently divorced). My issue is with the Chilli reference (if that was you). Chilli is 8 years older than Usher is. Granted they did make a better looking couple and a more popular couple from the whole entertainment business standpoint... but he wasn't in that much better of a boat from an age standpoint with Chilli. And all the references that I've heard from time to time about them being a better couple were just... biased for the better looking (classically speaking) woman... All I'm sayin'
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musbdherbs
Comment: Mas..u know how I am bout folks telling "private" business. MrsOliver...My cousin is Beyonce's mother best friend. When she comes to town week after next I have two front row seats, backstage passes and I will be eat'n dinner w/her and Jay-Z who may possibly perform Deja Vu that Thursday.
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Name:
Shortey71
Comment: No hospital news yet? Okay, be back.....
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Name:
realuvbaby
Comment: Are the hospital reports true? Please don't tell me Tameka is in the hospital in danger of losing the baby now that the wedding is off. What??
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Name:
Shortey71
Comment: I'm not sure if they are true realuvbaby, but I'm checkin in periodically to find out. Yeah I'm nosey....LOL...
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Closet_Nerd_Girl
Comment: >Exmum and Deb70- thank you very much! That was the point I was making earlier to khufu. If Tameka looked like Chilli (or Halle Berry or Vanessa Williams or Tracey Edmonds or <you get where I'm going...>)nobody would have had so much negativity to say about her from jump street. I bet if Vanessa Williams (who has been divorced TWICE and has a gaggle of kids) were to get engaged to John Legend or somebody, not nearly as many people would be up in arms about it.
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musbdherbs
Comment: *Damn EUR technical problems* MrsOliver...now of course I'm lying like shyt..just like you can be. Point is, we can be ne1 we want and know whatever online. So unless you are going to post your friends company's website, I'ma call you a beautiful liar. For convo's sake, if you are [said] friend, then your friend needs to slap the shyt outta you, chase you into oncoming traffic, push you in front of an ugly azz, yellow Mini-Cooper and refuse to visit you at the hospital! Do you not understand the privacy concerns of your friends clients? Do you think that she wants to be held responsible for YOU putting shyt out in the universe. That's her reputation being put on the line and in the business that is all some people have--their reputation. She may as well work for the Enquirer w/you as a friend.
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mrseoliver
Comment: And your point is??? I don't care if you know Beyonce or her family. No harm, but I thought we were talking about Usher and Tameka. My question is were you at the nuptials?? If not then....???? You can't not speak on it. I personally was not there that's why I said "My Friend's company... My friend said...". Anyway I hope you have a blast at the concert and eating with Jay-Z. I don't see the point BUT since your name dropping, if your cousin is Bey's momma best friend, tell Tina stop making that "Ring The Alarm" coat so long. Next time Bey may break an arm or leg instead on her face.
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musbdherbs
Comment: BTW, Tina didn't make that coat..she got it from the store next to where your friend's company is located. Yeah that store.
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Name:
gingerg
Comment: You right about that, Closet.
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Name:
mrseoliver
Comment: I apologize I got to you too late. BUT if a person is going to buy a product whether it's stationary, invite, clothing etc... they will buy it b/c of the quality. Do you really think that people are going to say "hey let's not buy this from her b/c her friend said that she said that he said?" (Although I know what I am talking about) Who's to say that anyone on this website believes me??? Just like you said I could be lying or am I?? No one know except for me and my friend... And that is the reason why I will not post her website b/c I know the commitment that she has to her clients (other than this matter)... unless she signs a confidential notice stating that she can not disclose any details then she can say what she wants. I am finished with the matter..... but damn I was hoping that your cousin really did know Bey's mother b/c I wanted you to tell her what I said.
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4mybabygirl
Comment: Usher should have been the one pulling an Eddie. I do not know who that babies' daddy is until it comes out!! It sounds like Jawn put some Voodoo right back on Tameka. All these curses going on is scaring me! The chick look like she should be his mother. Usher please watch what you eat from the next lady. By all personality is what matters, but damn! Usher you are making me feel real good. I'm 32, beautiful, married with two kids. So, I know I have a chance. Ladies, stand in line, because after seeing her we all have a chance! This is worse then Janet and Dupuri!
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mrseoliver
Comment: No herb... no store that I know in ATL or New York would sell anything like that. Oh on the other hand she may have obtained it from your closet>>> some of us know what you do on your weekends. IS IT A GUY OR A GIRL???? hmmmmmmm I don't know.
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SweetieDarlin
Comment: It's late, Y'all probably won't read this but dang if you are not on point Khufu and Musb, if you guys had said this same ish about a black woman, most black women would have been crying where is the love from the black man and coming up with 99 examples of lovely old divorcees with three children who happened to be married when they started dating their new love (of course it would be the ex-husband's fault) but they had a heart as good as gold. I know I'm posting to dead air this time of day but I had to say it!
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Name:
Peekiebear
Comment: Wait a minute- how old is this "man-child" Usher? 28? Come on- he ain't no damned baby! It is high time for him to start making his own decisions whether his mama (or anyone else) likes it or not. Why does his mother (who has no experience) have her hand in the pie? He has made her rich beyond her wildest dreams. A good loving mother lets her children go to live their own lives and make their own mistakes. And if she had taught him properly, he would have known to have worn a condom! Seems like a little boy playing in the adult world and I do NOT want anybody as weak as he is. Naturally, we hear all of this "stuff" about the finacce, but nothing about Usher. If Mama ever "lets" her son ever marry, it will be someone whom she can roll over. And if I were his pregnant fiancee, I would run like Hell from this pathetic situation .
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Name:
iclaudius
Comment: I do agree with Bubba that Chilli is somewhere laughing...ha ha.
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Name:
MOTHERSHIP
Comment: So, Peekiebear, you would standby and let your son marry some golddiggin' heffa that even looks like she don't mean him no good?
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Name:
MomaKnowz
Comment: Moral of the story? You can NOT be scandalous and have broke relatives. They'll call the Enquirer erry time!
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Name:
katee
Comment: Well, I had been on Tameka's side, but now I really don't know what to think, other than I still luv Ush, and will support whatever he does and whatever woman he wants to be married to.
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SmoothMahogany
Comment: Wow, this article has everybody talkin! I had came across this article on essence.com yesterday. It kind of gives you some insight on the woman Tameka is, doesn't sound so bad here: http://www.essence.com/essence/themix/entertainment/0, 16109,1633839,00.html
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