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missgee
Comment: Both of them seemingly have moved on so why continue making snyde comments against each other.
Eric cheated he ammitted it and they got divorced.
Now let it go, Hallie has a new man, Eric get a new women and try to be faithful to whomever you get.
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shakaz0117
Comment: Whether it was 27 times or 1, it is still called cheating.....
Move on and let it go!!
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shakaz0117
Comment: Whether it was 27 times or 1 time...it is still called cheating.
Move on and let it go!!
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shakaz0117
Comment: oops!!
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sultry
Comment: the man done admitted to cheaating and why is it that halle has to keep on responding to such. she is the one who needs to let it go. she makes me wonder about her is she really over him or does she want him back. halle really want herself a white man and she know she never wanted a brother.
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nerdyguyanon
Comment: And the hits just keep on coming - Eric Benet Lashes Out At Ex-Wife Halle Berry.
Halle Berry if your love life were a baseball game you would be on a losing team, while Vincent Cirrincione pitches the balls at you. And the only way you get on base is when the pitcher throws a ball and you get popped with it, then after you've been knocked silly you get to take a walk.
Talk about Major League cock blocking. Ain't nothing like the pros.
And for you girls who don't know, cock blocking is like saying if I cannot have you and make you do what I want no one else will.
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ind1chez
Comment: Halle never once said she paid him alimony BUT HE DID CONTEST THE PRENUP. Benet didn't have to marry Halle or bring his daughter into her life. He choose to be unfaithful and at the time he didn't care about the consequences--AND THAT IS NO ONES FAULT BUT HIS OWN. If Benet is STILL angry he should direct it toward one of his mistresses who outed him in THE MEDIA and got paid for doing so. FOR THE RECORD SHE HAS MOVED THE HELL ON AND SO SHOULD HE.
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Tipseone
Comment: Yo i agree with the shakaz quote, i mean oh im sorry mr benet you only cheated 5 times not 27 our correction, yo homey needs to get off that soap box cause hes looking quite stupid. I have sisters and im not about to tell them oh yeah automatically take your man back he only cheated on you a few times get over it already. Yo homeboy is making us black men look quite ignorant. Even a white lady on my job was like i guess hes proud of himself that he only screwed around a few times on his WIFE. Yo homeboy needs to get a clue, I mean im no fan of halle, i think she's hot and can always get it from me, but his comments make me understand why she left and thank God she did
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whynotme
Comment: in eric benet's defense, he was only responding to something halle said first so apparently he's not the only one that needs to move on....but him commenting on it not being 27 times is irrelevant, he cheated whether it was 27 or 3 times he still did it.
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McNasty
Comment: I still say he's a bytch boy and he needs to stop dangling his daughter like a carrot before Halle - it's done boy, stick a fork in it.
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MDhornet
Comment: Halle just wants a white man? Huh?!? Where's that coming from? I do agree with Eric about India. Halle used to talk so much about how much she loved that girl. I'd hoped she'd at least make an effort to keep in touch with her regardless of what her fathe did. India had no fault in the marraige ending. Probably too painful though. I'm always rooting for Halle nonetheless.
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OneShot
Comment: OK, seriously Halle really does nee to shut the hell up about the relationship. It's over and done. She did the same thing when she and David Justice divorced. She's already had 2 or 3 more boyfriends since the divorce, why continue to bring it up? Granted, getting cheated on sucks and the person who does sucks as well, but she is not the first and only woman it has happend to in this world. SHUT UP ALREADY!!! Don't get me wrong, I like Halle, but she is always crying about her relationships.
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shulamite
Comment: Eric needs to stop, but Halle is wrong if she isn't keeping a relationship with the little girl. Halle heself got on TV saying how she was that kid's "mom" and loved the kid and would still be her "mom" etc.... That's what happens when you marry into a blended family. You have a responsibility to everyone involved.
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infofan1960
Comment: I agree with ind1chez. Furthermore, Benet is just being like the typical man. When they cheat, they want the woman to forget about it and not mention it ever. Being cheated on hurts. Halle should talk about it for the rest of her life if she wants to. It doesn't mean she hasn't moved on. Men can't handle it when we call them on who they are. If they cheat, they're cheaters. If they lie, they are liers. Dogs that they are, they don't want the women they hurt to be vocal over the pain they're feeling, felt, etc. Benet's career is over. He should take care of his kid himself and stop trying to get Halle to be the kid's mother. Be a man and get a real job Benet. The music has stopped.
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ss69054
Comment: Ok everybody, Halle is our girl and we admired her to the fullest extent but doesn't it seem that Halle just chooses the wrong men. If u evaluate her past relationships, they all failed and she is a little coo coo if you'd asked me. The lady is beautiful and so forth but that tends to rub away and the true person begans to show after awhile. Halle is looking for love in the wrong way due to her father being abusive and all. But back to the ranch, Eric Benet admitted his cheating and so forth so it is time to move on. She did the same exact thing with David Justice. It is always 2 sides of the street. Halle is not as innocence and loving as we might think. She has flaws. I admire her and all for her accomplishments but she is just another chic who need some therapy and a reality check!
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khufu
Comment: LOL that's funny those of you who say..whether it's 1 time or 27 it's the same thing! LOL you all most be didtahs! That's the logic a woman uses for sure...let's reverse it: A sistah messes around in a relationship with a man, let's say 15 times....she get's caught (surely she is not going to willingly admit it or admit to it)...okay....her admitting to cheating 4 times in her mind covers the 15 times..so she admits to the four as her acts of infidelity......and not ALL 15....what difference does it make, she says, 5 is just like 15!!! LOL
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khufu
Comment: CORRECTIOM: that's SISTAHS not didtahs....
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lovinlife
Comment: I think Halle is dead dayum wrong in this situation. THose who say he it doesn't matter if he cheated one time or 27 times, but image wise is does matter. By saying that it was 27 times she's saying that he has serious character issues rather than there was a problem in their marriage and he strayed. She's absolving herself of any responsibility on why their shat broke down. I think its weak and if the situation was reversed I don't think many women would be as supportive. The daugther situation is truly what turns me off the most. Halle did parade that child around and proclaim herself her mother. Didn't she even adopt her? It appears that she kicked the child to the curb along with the man and that's just fcuked up. People who are saying this Eric Benet's fault should try to recount how often he's spoken about Halle in a negative way at all. He hasn't and if someone keeps talking shat about you eventually you gonna start talking back. She needs to shut up before he puts all her business on blast. I personally think that all of her failed relationships can't always be the man's fault.
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infofan1960
Comment: oops. Lyers.
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NYCsoul
Comment: In this instance, I side with Eric. Folks are talking like they know every detail that went on in their marriage. Halle has been talking about this ever since they broke up a couple of years ago. In all fairness to Eric, with the exception of the 20/20 interview, he has not dwell on it and has moved on. Honestly, why can't he respond just because of his 'indiscretion'? She can continue to beat the dead horse but when he finally says enough is enough, he's wrong to say that? Because he 'cheated' on her does not mean that he has continue to accept her bashing him. Matter of fact, I thought he had publicly apologized to her. I agree with the poster who said that Halle herself is no saint nor is she Ms. innocent. In the end, the real person to suffer the reprecussions of this latest war of words is India.
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NYCsoul
Comment: Lovinlife: Thank you!
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poeticlyspkng
Comment: I don't see anything wrong with Halle's comments myself. If it happened to Eric, I wouldn't see anything wrong if he said it. Some people really value marriage and might be bitter if it ends because of the other's infidelity. If she wants to talk about it, let her do her. So what? He can talk too if he wants, he won't be hurting his daughter or Halle either. To me, he should have either remained silent or came back with his own dirt. Otherwise, quit crying. Man up, dude!
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ThruTheFire
Comment: LovinLife I agree, I don't think Halle is Ms. Innocent in this whole thing, it seems as if the girl has a few flaws herself. I guess I am a bit thrown that she hasn't kept in touch with India (for whatever reason she has nothing to do with the breakdown of that marriage). Yes cheating is cheating but at least the brother sought help and admitted to his addiction and is trying to turn his life around. I admire Halle and I wish her the best, but in this case I think she was wrong to stir up trouble.
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goodnplenty1957
Comment: so halle is talking about cheating?? wasnt she cheating with that white boy she with now when she was supposedly dating Michael Ealy from Barbershop? hmmmmm. possibly her having these issues with men might be her instead of all of these men...ooops, all of these black men. maybe thats why she went to the other side.
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ThruTheFire
Comment: correction.....Halle "isn't" innocent
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thebaddestchick
Comment: Im with Eric on this one. Yeah she has a right to be alittle bitter, but sooner or later you move on. Dang you got your white boy..keep it moving. Personally , I think she need some counseling because there is something in her that is attracted to the wrong men. Remember she proposed to David Justice....Sometimes it is something in us that attracts us to certain type of men and that can be an issue. Eric Benet is doing his thing make amends and taking care of his daughter. I know the little girl is hurt because Halle is the only thing of a mother she has had since her mother died in a car accident when she was little. So I know she feels she has lost two mothers.
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YLawdY
Comment: lovinlife ....thank you. I too have wondered what happened to that close, "loving" relationship she had with her step-daughter. No matter what went on, she shouldn't bad mouth her "beloved" daughter's only parent in the media.
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coesmo
Comment: Benet isn't totally wrong in his %*$esment. ...Halle needs to accept responsibility for the role she plays in her relationships...and not just the victim role...I think she has a tendancy to feel sorry for herself....
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Merd325
Comment: Eric Benet is one of those men that we women love to hate on, but I am not hating on that man's ability to sing. I love his music!!!
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coesmo
Comment: Yeah...and whatever happened between her and Mike Ealy?
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MSHELICIA
Comment: everybody is pointing fingers at one or the other. how about they both move shut up and move on ?
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MITTAMOU
Comment: I for one am glad to hear Eric finally says what everybody should be saying, in every relationship this woman has had once they break up she is always the victim, get over yourself Halle.
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MSHELICIA
Comment: that should be shut up and move on.
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Thunny
Comment: The fact is this is a dead horse and for some reason Halle insists on still beating it. A person can only take so much without responding so he finally acknowledged and responded to her claims and he denied them, simple as that. He has a right to clear his name. He's already admitted to past transgressions and says he's moved on. It's not Benet who is issuing these unprompted comments to the press, it's Halle. He has a right to respond, and he did.
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HighlyFavored1
Comment: Halle, give it a break! The man cheated; he admitted it, now let's move on! Guess what, he probably won't be the only man to cheat on ya, honey! Ooooh, I know what it is, she wants him back! LOL
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RyTay27
Comment: Let me find out E. said he has had a damn nuff. I wonder if we'll hear any more discouraging remarks from Halle after this. It sounds as if he is ready to put her on blast.
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Gemami
Comment: I totally agree with Eric. Halle always plays the victim role… she did it with David Justice and she doing it now with Eric Benet (who I admit did a stupid move), but there comes a time when she has to take responsibility for why her relationships not only don’t work but have such disastrous outcomes. And I also agree with his comment about his daughter… Halle professed love and affection towards his daughter… if she truly cared then she said wouldn’t continue to vent her frustrations in the media. This goes out to Robin Givens, Mary J. Blige and Halle Berry: Stop rehashing the past, playing the victim, brush the hurt from your shoulders and move on.
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Stephanie
Comment: She did the same thing to David Justice
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Hollyhood
Comment: OK people when are we going to finally see this. HALLE is the problem NOT the men. She has so many jacked up issues with being mixed and her daddy not being in her life, that she doesnt know how to be in a relationship without f**ing it up. HALLE IS BRIDEZILLA!!!!!!!
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Train
Comment: If Halle was taking care of business then homeboy wouldn't have cheater on her to begin with. A lot of women think it's just about looking good but to keep a brotha interested it takes more then that. A cat wouldn't step out if the p'ussy was all that.
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Thunny
Comment: That's right Train! "Sex all night, mad head in the morn!"
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Train
Comment: Now I'am not saying that adultery is right because it's not in anyway, shape or form. All I'm saying is that you have to put in work to keep the fires burning.
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Exmun
Comment: You have to at least feel Eric Benet on this one. Halle's entitled to being hurt over the situation... probably for the rest of her life. But starting stuff in the media over a relationship that is dead and gone is immature and childish. She looks less and less like the victim when she does stuff like this. E. Benet was wrong for cheating--once, twice, 5 times 10 time or 27 times. But she doesn't need to be putting this stuff out there constantly. Call me old fashioned but I believe what happens in a marriage should generally stay within the marriage. If you decide to get a divorce... do it. But stop all of the nonsense and put it behind you.
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mcalis1980
Comment: I'm usually a Halle supporter...but homegirl was wrong on this one. She knew what she was doing when she blurted the amount of times Eric cheated. She's subtly trying to destroy his image, because he broke her heart. She did the SAME THING to David Justice. And she has done the same thing to most of her past boyfriends. It's almost like if you date Halle and break up with her, you will surely be marked a demon. I wonder what Gabriel will be marked when he messes around on her (and this whole thing that he's the "ideal" guy is bogus to me - time will tell who this guy is - there are already certain rumors about him). Plus, I'm still wondering how Halle can "have a boyfriend" yet in the same breath tell Hugh Jackman she wishes he was not married. Homegirl has a problem with "subtle comments."
Anyway, my main thing is Halle should not be doing this to India. During this age of Internet - where people, especially young people have constant access to gossip -- this can be quite damaging, hurtful, and embarrassing for India to have to read or hear (i.e., from her peers) about her father's past indiscretions -- Halle REALLY SHOULD HAVE THOUGHT ABOUT THAT. But like Eric said...her ACTIONS are showing that she may not have really cared for his daughter in the first place. Halle is a good talker...but I think there's more to this story and Eric is taking the high road and not sharing - I think he should - Halle has no problems ruining his reputation.
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EdnaMae
Comment: Go away Benet, you have major issues, and Halle has moved on to a man that is way better looking and treats her right. I know its hard for you to get this, but, she is the STAR, not you!
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mcalis1980
Comment: But it's Halle that started this up again. And her new man is not that good looking -- sorry. He looks like any other white male model.
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ss69054
Comment: Halle is a nutcase. Everybody adores her and just don't want to admit it. If you guys can remember when she was married to David Justice, he played horribly that season during the time of their divorce. When it was over, the brotha had a good season and was close to winning the championship. That goes to show she can stress those men out. Halle has some deep issues about being bi-racial and with her father's abusive torment. She really never recovered from that and actually made no peace with him. She was bitter and it pretty much carried on to her relationships which made her dependent on her husbands, boyfriends, etc and made her needy. That can be irritating to a man afterwhile. I don't care how beautiful you are. She has now "switched" over b/c brothas are starting to recognize her game. It's over!
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xavixavi
Comment: Halle was ASKED, and she replied.
It's not that she hasn't moved on. and on and on and on.....
It's that she doesn't seem to have the common sense to say "no comment".
As for Eric, A (thief/cheat/liar/murderer) will get called a that for the rest of his life. To change opinion, he has to show by deeds that he has changed, not whine why are they calling me (fill in the blank)
As for the little girl. Not sure here, but either a) it sounds good for Halle to say those things, b) it wasn't her daughter, and being involved w/ her puts her in contact w/ Eric.
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Snicker
Comment: --->EdnaMae you really shouldn't smoke this early in the morning!....that white boy halle is with is cute for white boy standards but the sucka is no way finer or sexier than eric benet with is cheating self!
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mcalis1980
Comment: Snicker -- AMEN!
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HighlyFavored1
Comment: Snicker, I agree! Eric may be a cheating, lying SOB but he's a cute fine one! That white boy aint got nothing on him!
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Gurlfrand
Comment: Have a nice life, EB - disappear!!
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CrzyLdy16
Comment: I'm siding with Eric on this one. I also think that there is a difference in cheating one compared to 27 times. 1 time= mistake 27= pattern. I also find it troubling that Halle has totally removed herself from India's life. That child has no mother and apparently Halle was just "playing" the role. I think Eric would be the bigger person and allow that relationship between his daughter and Halle to continue. I think Eric as well as India are more hurt by that than the stupid statements she keeps making. What goes around comes around. I think Halle put the move on Eric while he was still with the girl from Envouge.
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Deb70
Comment: I agree xavixavi, if Halle were to attempt to continue a relationship with India, it would indeed cause her to maintain contact with Eric, and I can't imagine that would be a healthy thing to do, given how they parted. And who knows, Eric could manipulate the situation by using India--not that he'd purposely use his own daughter, but you know, he could feel he has the freedom to call Halle and be in her business, based on the fact that Halle has a relationship with his child. And I sure thought I remembered Halle saying she adpoted India, so what, has she "un-adpoted" the child now? I don't get that.
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musbdherbs
Comment: It doesn't matter if the parents can't get along. You are adults..the child is in the middle. Surely you can't be suggesting that it's understandable that Halle doesn't want to see India because of her dislike of Eric. This is a child involved NOT just some dispute amongst two adults. You find a way to make it work. Obviously, making it work isn't what Halle seems interested in doing.
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OneShot
Comment: No one says cheating is OK. I have been cheated on and yes it hurts, but am I'm not harping about it years later after I'm married to my husband and have moved on from previous cheating boyfriends. Heck no...because that would mean i'm not healing and getting over it. It's been talked about on Oprah and in magazines and with everyone who asks her. Maybe if she would let go of old $hit she could have a successful relationship.
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HighlyFavored1
Comment: I'm telling y'all, Eric just needs to go ahead and do her and do her good. She'll shut the hell up then!
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yunvme
Comment: I seem to remember a picture of Halle and his daughter out shopping within the "last couple of years".
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TheQuietGuy
Comment: all i can say is halle let it go. Im not saying she does not have the right to be hurt but man to try and dog a person in the media is not right. WE ALL have our various issues but one must look at themselves when things go wrong in their relationships. I too agree with a previous poster in saying there was something that she was not soing for him to cheat. I am a man i and i will say for the most part A MAN is not going to stray if all is good on the homefront. If he is not getting it at home (whatever is lacking) he is going to seek it elsewhere- AND YES ladies many of you will do the same!!!
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dcdouglass01
Comment: I think Halle has some insecurity issues, which would make it impossible to STAY married to her. Of course the fact that she's fine and rich could carry any husband along for the first year or so. But after a few months---when she jumps in front of the 70" big screen for the 100th time (just as the quarterback of your favorite team throws a Hail Mary with 2 seconds left to go in the game) and demands "Look at me!"---it's time to leave. I think in the end she'll settle for a marriage of convenience. Such as marrying her current beau and allowing him to cruise the gay bars from time to time.
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mcalis1980
Comment: Yeah I heard Gabriel MIGHT have the alternative lifestyle. Time will tell. But will say he will likely stay with Halle for a minute considering he does not have to marry her...he's pretty much getting two mansions, sex, more fame, etc...without having to fully commit to this woman. WOW Halle - you really hit the jackpot this time huh? -- I'm being sarcastic!
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ind1chez
Comment: Berry hasn't publicly mentioned his name in over two years so what in the hell is he talking about. Benet needs to be a man and grow the hell up and address his concerns to the media and about the media in general. Halle has no control over the media and what they write or how THEY CHOOSE TO INTREPRET WHAT SHE SAYS AND BEING A PUBLIC PERSON BENET SHOULD KNOW THIS. The bigger question is why is he exploiting his daugher in the media ? Does he want sympathy ? He is a VICTIM OF HIS OWN DOING.
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huey
Comment: didnt that half-bree-heffa do the same thang to david justice....cheeseeaten trick dont know when to shut up....maybe if she did less talkn and more *(&(& she would still be with one of them.
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ladybyrd
Comment: Odviously, the horse isn't dead, because it seems that the media can't let it go. If you had to pay alimony to some trick who cheated on you. And the person keeps dangling their kid in front of you, wouldn't you be %*$!ed! Hell, I don't want to over pay for anything and I damn sure don't wan't to give any MONEY or TIME to someone who doesn't care about me...period!
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ladybyrd
Comment: I lived Eric, before he got in the high profile relationship. I like the fact that I knew nothing about him. All I knew about Eric was his music and that's the way I like it. Move on Eric, get back to making some soulful, jazzy music. You cheated, you lost her now move on, she has.
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ladybyrd
Comment: Someone mentioned that Halle just wants a white man.
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Tipseone
Comment: Yo one more thing, i havent heard halle mention dudes name in a minute either so it sounds like eric is having a PMS moment on this one. Also did yall see how homey tried to pull the ol Jedhi mind trick and use his daughter to deflect from his behavior like halle cant say nuthin bad about him ever b.c of their child, thats a good one and i use it myself at times. Eric really needs to man up on this one cause he's looking type foolish.
Also like i said before since he mentioned his daughter, if she came to him as a married woman whose husband might have strayed, would he be like wow it was only 7 times girl you better give him another chance nucca please
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ladybyrd
Comment: ooops, Someone mentioned that Halle just wants a white man. I thought this was covered before, Halle is mixed. Her mother is Caucasian and her father is black. I think that gives Halle options for love in both ethnic groups. Even if she was African American ONLY, sometimes you fall in love with people different from you.
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ladybyrd
Comment: Tipseone > I love Eric's music, but his new CD didn't do well at all. He need some press time. Halle is established and her career is still moving. Eric needs to move somethin'
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Eastwood
Comment: I read most of you guys' comments, but not all, so hopefully I won't repeat some of the same things. I have to say that Halle really does need to give it a rest. I know she's asked these questions when she's giving an interview, but for someone who apparently isn't attention-crazed, why not just decline to answer or say "I would prefer not to get into that." Anything but clownin' him over and over. The thing I also hate is that if a woman cusses out the dude (or spreads tales/truths of what went on in the relationship), it's all good. But when a man does it (usually only out of retaliation--at least, after the initial ho/slut comment), he's referred to as a bytch (less-than man). It ain't right. The woman shouldn't kiss-and-tell neither. Matter of fact, she should've known better when she got with him. She had to've known dude got around. You marry somebody of that nature, and nature wins out. Pure and simple.
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NYCsoul
Comment: Halle hasn't mentioned his name in a minute because she had no movie or projects to promote. The media would have nothing to 'twist' if she did not keep talking about Eric. It's apparent that she has yet to 'let go' or move on. I have not heard Eric lamenting or whining about Halle after the 20/20 interview he gave after their breakup. But Halle makes the choice to keep 'answering' questions about their relationship time and time again. So it seems to me that perhaps that Halle needs to 'woman-up'(hell, if it's good for Eric, it's good for her too!), let it go and move on.
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MsFresno
Comment: Number one the source was IN TOuch magazine. I doubt Halle even said it. Even if she did so what. Eric you want some cheese to go along with the WHine?
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musbdherbs
Comment: Was I the only who read that she was interviewed in last week's "In Touch" magazine? That's quite far from "not having mentioned his name in a minute" Uhm..last week?
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NYC1
Comment: Why are people attacking Eric Benet for standing up for himself? If ya'll remember, Halle Berry did the same "I'm a Victim" press campaign with David Justice, smearing his name in the press (TV and print). Not once did he say anything negative about her. He did ONE interview talking about their marriage and that was in Ebony Man. He talked about how she was insecure and always needed people in her camp to tell her how beautiful she was and constantly needed attention. I have reason to believe Eric's side of the story. Halle Berry is a good talker - she knows all the right things to say to get black folks on her side; but her actions tell another story. Halle is for herself. She used India for PR imaging and make herself look like a caring step-mother, like she was really loved this girl like she was her own child. NOT! If that were the case, she would not have abandoned her after the split up with Eric. Halle adopting India was a lie...it sounded good in the press, but she never adopted her. It might be a blessing because Halle is too self-involved to be a good parent.
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mcalis1980
Comment: People keep talking about Eric's Primetime special interview...BUT AGAIN, he was not going to say anything UNTIL MISS HALLE got on Oprah and put him on blast. Eric ONLY comments on Halle when she comments on him first. She seemingly is the instigator...NOT ERIC. He's simply trying to protect his name...especailly since he is in an image business where your "good name" means almost everything. Plus, I'm sure he's concerned about the image his daughter has of him. Now, in terms of him using his daughter to get to Halle emotionally---there may be some truth in that--I think he both, of course, cares and loves his daughter and wants to protect her -- but also is hitting Halle below the belt JUST AS SHE SEEMS TO DO WITH HIM, WITHOUT THINKING TWICE!
I'm not saying Eric was right to cheat - in fact he was dead wrong and I support Halle in that...but he has said there was soooooooo much going on during their marriage...but he's just not telling everything - in fact during the Primetime special the interviewer tried to get him to spill some beans and he wouldn't -- he may not be perfect, but he did offer Halle some respect in terms of her image which is also important to her career, although she was bashing his. I actually wonder what stories he has (And are we forgetting how Eric supported Halle during her little hit and run incident?). Something tells me their marriage started falling apart and he got %*$!ed when Halle did that love scene on Monster's Ball. I read he walked out of the private screening when he first saw it. So my whole thing is...there is probably A LOT MORE TO THIS STORY! I guess we have to wait for Eric to write a book...which based on what I've seen of his "media character" he probably will not. Now Halle?? I'm sure we'll see movies, books, television shows, etc. about her life and how she's been the "victim."
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mcalis1980
Comment: Actually didn't just make that comment In Touch Mag...I had read that a few weeks ago and was like Woah! when I first read it. Here's the link...
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/12993760/
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jess
Comment: I also hope I don't repeat anything that's been stated, but first of all Halle wasn't married to Michael Ealy and to my knowledge, there were never any allegations of cheating. They just broke up and remained friends. Secondly, Benet did cheat and she did pay him! Is she lying about that? Now he wants to control what she says? Thirdly, India is HIS daughter. When they split up, she wanted to be with her father and he took her back to Milwaukee or wherever he's from to LIVE WITH HIS MOTHER. Now he wants to talk about Halle not keeping in contact? This whining azz wants to protect HIS so called career and he's freaking out because he can't control shyte! He needs to grow up, ignore what she says and don't comment then she will look foolish, but as long as her comments, HE is always going to come away looking stupid on this issue.
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PRDC
Comment: Halle is alright, but she has serious mental problems...anyone that have been on to a psych. for years, you know that they are very unstable. Go on a be with your white man and be happy, because that's the way you grew up. Of course, us know you are black but when you aren't brought up black then you will always have a problem. Too bad her father didn't think enough of her to be in her life for her to learn early on. Eric should have stayed with the previous girlfriend before Halle came run to him......now he know...even David Justice know and all the black men she has dated...something is wrong with the sista mentally...
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MistaO
Comment: On the real Halle just confused, and by the way, she is too old to still be carrying some of those issues. At a certain point, no matter what happened in childhood, we have to grow up, quit blaming others, forgive and move on. Also, I really don't think she's into yt boys the way some "sisters" want her to be. Cause she would't have hooked up with so many brothers in the past but there was a problem with most of the cats she "got with". That problem, they wasn't grimey enough. Now some of yawl crinkling yawl's noses up at that statement but check it, she from my hometown of the "C", Cleveland, and no matter what she, or any of yawl other heads THINK yawl know, this chick need a staight up, Black as coal, thugged out, rough type, business savvy Cleveland thugga if you get my drift. Think about it, I mean Eric be walking (I used "be" on purpose, flows better) around bare foot and all sensitive and what not. Chicks like her and the average sista that think she knows it all, can't really function with nothing other than a hard as nails brother that don't take shorts and won't have none of her nonsense. She'll fight him for a hot second, but then she'd fall into compliance and then and only then, would she realize that SHE has been out of order and her life would then be fufilled. Like EB let her do certain questionable movie roles, now you know good an well, if she was with a grind um out solider, she would have automatically had respect and knew that wasn't even gonna fly. I mean look how Angela B%*$ett turned some of that crap down and came right out to the media and basically said that would have been an affront to her man and all Black men. Now holla, that's a real sista, all day long. But again, a lot of Halle's issues have to do with the soft kinda brothers she was getting with. Trust, she run up with something like a solider (and you all know what I'm talking about) you'd see this chick with like 5 kids by now all happy and smiling on the cover of Ebony.
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jess
Comment: That should have been "as long as he comments."
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goodnplenty1957
Comment: hmmmmm, still wondering Halle going thru all of this with these black men? now she with a pink-toe and claim she is happy. i agree with the brotha earlier. Maybe these black men peeped her "ho card"...if she is saying all this about EVERYONE of these brothas, WESLEY, DAVID, ERIC, MICHAEL, hmmmm. could it be these brothas are smarter than she realized? HERE'S A HINT..THEY LISTEN TO BELL BIV DEVOE'S SONG POISON. ...NEVER TRUST A BIG BUTT AND A SMILE.
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Eastwood
Comment: Jess, nothing personal but I'm gonna have to disagree with you on the point of whenever he speaks up, he's going to come away looking stupid. It seems to me whenever he does mention something it is minimal. He's also only reacting as anyone would when their name is being dragged thru mud. I'm sure--regardless of how physically fine she is--she was not very easy to be around. Who knows, maybe I'm wrong...and on the comment about India and keeping in touch with her, that is on Halle--assuming she really has not been in touch like he says (I believe him). Halle--and everybody else in the situation--ought to know that when you get involved with someone with kids (especially when you marry the person), you have to be ready to continue that relationship (in this case: out of town)...even if you cannot be with the parent. Of course, that's easier than said; however, Halle has jets and helicopters, etc. to her name, so it's a bit easier for her to make contact.
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TJthemilitant
Comment: Old news!...But I tell you what, cheater or not EB was looking damn good on the BET awards last night..DAMN!!!!
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Tipseone
Comment: Please we will always trust a big butt and a smile at least for a minute.
Oh and sidebar Wesley snipes is a straight up psycho, had the displeasure of meeting him in nyc a few years ago so i give halle one for dealing with wesley's crazy %*$.
Also i know i keep bringing up the same thing but could you imagine if halle cheated on eric and was like i only did it a few times what his he trippin about people would call her the whore of babylon, yo game recognizes game and eric's game is wack. He needs to move the hell on
Oh and one more thing WHO THe hell reads IN Touch magazine, never heard of it and havent heard erics name mentioned on radio in months in terms of bad gossip i have only heard about halle and hte white boy so if you ask me him hyping up an interview that nobody cared about is his pitiful attempt to get some attention. I mean really you dont wait weeks or months ot respond to gossip you only do that if you are looking for some air time which he got . Mission accomplished E.
Oh but FYI to all the people saying halle cant let it go Eric was on the Wendy Williams experience TWICE talking about his ex wife, my girl listens and you dont go on wendy's show to let nuthing go. If you ask me he is just as bad about beating a dead horse
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mcalis1980
Comment: TJthemilitant -- He sure was!! I was like DAMN! His daughter was there too. In fact there are some cute pictures of he and his daughter on his myspace page...he clearly loves and cares for her a lot.
myspace.com/ebenet.com
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MOTHERSHIP
Comment: Missgee, McNasty, that's on the real. They're over and done with each and moving in different directions, what the hell is Eric still harping and whining about it for? Get the fucck over it, EB. It's a wrap!
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YLawdY
Comment: MistaO....What did you have for lunch?
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YLawdY
Comment: TJthemilitant yeah he was! Was Condi Rice really at the BET Awards?
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McNasty
Comment: Hey Mothership! It also occurs to me with the number of comments from folk about Halle not keeping in touch with that child - that's Eric's child and her health and well being are his responsibility not Halle's. Also, she's old enough to understand that some people are put in your life forever and some for a fleeting moment - too bad grown folk don't understand that and if her daddy was a man he'd explain the intricacies of relationships to his daughter because after all, he's the cause of Halle not being in the child's. Anything over and above that I don't blame Halle - messing around with the kid could her back in the line of fire.
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justafu
Comment: It's about time that he spoke up for himself! For all of you Halleites, she's not perfect eventhough she's with Gabby Angel.
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ladybyrd
Comment: NYC1 > Though, I have loved David Justice since he was the Atlanta Braves. He seemed very humble, however Halle didn't put him on blast. The media caught him in an Urban area, propositioning the local girls for sex. And he was in known drugs areas.
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iclaudius
Comment: I agree with McNasty. Eric should leave his daughter out af any discussions he has with the the press about Halle. That is a bit cheezzy!!
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Priceless
Comment: well mofocker if you cheated 27 times why can't she say it? heyell you wrote a whole dayum CD capitalizing off the break up so STFU!
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ladybyrd
Comment: goodnplenty1957 > It might be the other way around. You mentioned Wesley, didn't he say that he WOULD NOT date a black woman??
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ladybyrd
Comment: Priceless> He sure did... He mentioned to the media that his CD was about his breakup.
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OSUN
Comment: Oh the poor kept man. They both need to move on. Halle just don't comment on Mr. Nasty anymore. Relax relate release. Just think of the alimony as good riddance pittance.
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mcalis1980
Comment: Well most songwriters write about their personal lives...I'm mean that's the only way it's authentic. You can't really fault him for that.
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OSUN
Comment: But I do have to admit that was a classy rebuttal.
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Priceless
Comment: ThruTheFire, actually Eric has said that he does not have an addiction ... he said that was what he agreed to in order to keep his wife when he first got busted ... just the fact that he did that says to me that this break up is more about him focking up not Halle ... and no one is without flaws including her, but someone is responsible for the break down in the relationship and I say it is Mr. Barefoot Without A Hit *sucking teeth*
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Priceless
Comment: As for the daughter, Halle is not obligated to continue any relationship with her .. she is a minor and that is Eric's child so it just would complicate their ability to finally move past this mess
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Priceless
Comment: macalis, if Eric was so concerned with how his daughter sees him image wise, he wouldn't have publicly (on his first CD and interviews)stated that he dogged her mom out as well
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Priceless
Comment: Tipsone, there are people on this board that call Halle a whore for marrying 2 dudes and dating bout 6 in her 40 yrs on this earth so I know what they would say if she was the one that cheated, but fact remains she is not the one that cheated
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Priceless
Comment: mc, and you can't fault a woman for being pizzed when a man cheats especially when you know what kind of freaky shat he into and what he might brang back to your bed
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Priceless
Comment: lady, cuz I shole didn't see him scrap what he started in the studio and go in another direction ... he wrote most of that stuff while they were completely apart
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NYCsoul
Comment: If I recall, didn't Halle say that she adopted India? She said this publicly so how is Eric trying to play the 'emotional' card when she was the one stated that she adopted India as her own? She mentioned this 'adoption' in Ebony magazine, if I'm not mistaken.
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tsktsk
Comment: I met several people who've been close to Miss Halle and she is according to each of them: (1) In desperate need of Jesus and (2) in desperate need of some help. Her "issue" is attention, so she does things that draw attention to her. Dave Justice said it best, "She's an actress."
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ladybyrd
Comment: So if it's okay for him to put it on a CD, then why doesn't she get the same consideration. She had to pay this man ALIMONY and HE cheated. Then he pulled a punk move when she mentioned that she wanted to continue seeing his daughter. He decided to move her to another state, across country! Now, he whining that she doesn't keep touch. Negro she probably don't want to deal with YOU! Move on Eric while I'm still digging your music. <shaking my head>
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Fragrance
Comment: Since Oprah had Terry McMillan and her ex on, would you like to see Halle and Eric on with Oprah's psyche person? I think India should benefit and receive the attention she needs. Eric could also be grooming someone else to take over as the Mommy in India's life and I think it is wise for Halle to give him some room. They might have to go on Oprah before it turns ugly. Fighting with the ex to me only releases built up resentment....it can show its ugly head at any time even when you think you have moved on. Eric should come up with a new song to sing to Halle there (and her new man should be in the audience....Oh yeah, Michael Ealy should also be in the audience too....okay, David should be there too...) Jokes aside, I wonder if they could sit on the same sofa and allow a professional to help them out?
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mcalis1980
Comment: She did get the same consideration with regard to telling all about their marriage - she did magazines, she did Oprah, now years later she's telling another magazine and other reporters about it. I think Eric is just tired of the sniping. With regard to Eric "putting it" on CD -- he never bluntly says HALLE on the CD. Even during interviews Eric will say it covers a lot of stuff...not just Halle and he does not tear her down on the CD. It's more of a self-examination.
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musbdherbs
Comment: Unless ya'll bout to tell me that a child is irrelevant, it doesn't matter what issues the ADULT may have. If you've made a commitment to be a part of a child's life. That's what you do. Man up...woman up and deal w/whatever your adult issues are. She did say some'n about adopting the girl. If it were a man..or somebody other than Halle...u same women would have plenty to say. None of us know for sure what happened in the relationship. So to assume that halle is the "wronged" party is so...uhm...expected. She's always that...the victim. He was w/o a doubt wrong for cheating...but we know very little about what were her "wrongs" in this relationship. This is what happens when a man responds. He's supposed to crawl into a corner and die. The fkd up part is that I know a rack of women who end up back w/the man who dogged them. But, it's always the man's fault. It never fails. Men don't expect women 2 c it. Hence the continous battle between the sexes. Fragrance...I don't think that they need to until Halle is able to admit her "wrongs" Is it really possible that a woman has been in so many dyfunctional relationships to never have contributed to the breakdown? I don't think so. All of her relationships have ended w/her saying the same thing.."I've been wronged".....AND all the different men saying the same..."She's playing the sympathy card" It's a good idea...but I think this is so much larger than just Eric.
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mcalis1980
Comment: Frangrance...LOL! That's hilarious!
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Priceless
Comment: musb, so what are you saying? it's wrong to leave a man if he cheats and it's wrong to stay with a man that cheats? *scratching head* that post confused me ... btw, I keep reiterating that her relationships are played out publicly because she is famous and dates famous men .... I know the women on this board and even the men (although young) have been through a few relationships ... just cuz they ended or even ended badly does that mean there is something wrong with the person? People are put in your life for a reason or a season *shrugging shoulders*
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mcalis1980
Comment: musbdherbs - [quote]"She's playing the sympathy card" It's a good idea...but I think this is so much larger than just Eric."[/quote]
I completely agree with this point. Halle's issues are bigger than Eric...she never made peace with her father and he has since passed on. I wonder if that is eating at her as well. I think this woman has very deep issues that we probably cannot even imagine.
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Gemami
Comment: From reading some of the comments I have to add my .02cents. First Halle doesn’t *want* to date a white man… I think she just want to be in a successful relationship. If anything Halle has always been comfortable being bi-racial, especially with being Black. I think she has a problem with ‘love’ and honestly hope she finds the love she’s seeking. As for Eric’s daughter, I also remember Halle saying she adopted India. I may be mistaken but Eric would have to get permission from Halle to move India because she's her parent. Since my legal experience is limited Divorce Court I can be very wrong on that. Lastly, as someone said, it doesn’t matter how many times Eric cheated, he’s a punk azz biotch for doing so. However, I think I feel her continue comments in the media are reminiscent of her breakup with David Justice… she immediately goes on these woo is me campaigns in the media instead of allow the relationship to fade out. Although Eric was wrong for contesting the pre-nup I think Halle shouldn't allow the media to continue to play on her emotions.
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SweetieDarlin
Comment: May be saying the same comment as someone has already said but here goes: Halle is not better or worse than the typical women, many give her a pass because she is pretty, rich and should have it all. Heck it is scary for some of us because if we are only going by looks and fame the point would be if Halle can't find good love do any of us have a chance...however on the real, if you keep choosing the wrong relationships, doesn't matter who you are it isn't going to work out. Halle unfortunately has a track record of getting so called bad men (except seemingly other women can get along with them and like them just fine) so it could be Halle. Remember allegedly Halle was the one that pulled Eric from another woman, did she think her coochie was so great that another woman couldn't pull him from her? Supposedly the woman Eric cheated with was none other than the woman he left for Halle! HMMM---Anyway while I feel for anyone who was in a relationship that did not work out, sometimes you do have to do a self examination so you won't continue to go down the same path. AND I never believed that sexual addiction shat anyway--heck if my man cheats (HUUMP he better not), he cheats, cheat on Halle, it's a sexual addition---cheat on Sweetie, it's just mucking around LOL!
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musbdherbs
Comment: Price..at no point did I say that she was wrong for leaving. Where did you get that from? Even after re-reading my post, I couldn't figure out where that came from. On your other points...if "you" keep meeting men who abuse u or are drug addicts..I think it quite reasonable to assume that it may be something wrong w/"you" That's a separate issue from what the men are. It's plain and simple. Consistent w/your thought about reason/season, it is more than possible that these "bad" men keep coming into Halle's life to show "her" where she needs help.
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CrzyLdy16
Comment: There are people who just bring the "crazy" out in you. LOL Maybe Halle is one of those people because you are right, when her exs get with others, you don't really hear anything negative about them.
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VickiE
Comment: Isn't it funny, he says on one hand that he doesn't want to go down that "victim" road but he skips down there by bringing up his daughter? Poor, misunderstood Eric. Sorry dude, cheaters are also liars , so I find your plea to be suspect. I don't blame Halle, I would let everyone know what a low down, nasty, sleazy, funky dog he was. At least no one can claim he/she didn't warn them. Also, just because he claims he hasn't asked for money doesn't mean he won't. The little punk!!!!
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Classytee
Comment: Sorry, I agree with Eric on this one. Oh yeah, I forgot he left Terry of Envogue to be with her. Wasn't they together for a minute? I don't know, Halle is always the victim in all her breakups. I heard around that she's frigid and doesn't really enjoy sex among other issues. Didn't Christopher Williams have the same complaints about her? He was like "just cause her name is in bright lights, doesn't mean she's perfect." He was saying guys would ask "how could you leave her" and he would be like "the same way you left your woman." I'm sorry she was cheated on cause as a woman, I know it sucks and all but you live and learn and move on. Other than that, I don't feel sorry for her. It's possible for a woman (no matter how beautiful she is) to turn people off. It looks like she has the outside down pat, but needs to do the inside work. As a woman, I try to stay mindful of that fact.
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jess
Comment: Eastwood,
Sorry for late response.BTW: I do appreciate your thoughtful responses. My reasoning for saying that he's always going to look bad, is because regardless to the debate that is going on here, people LOVE Halle. She is beautiful, talented and our first Best Actress winner. She has issues, yes, but that also endears her to people because they see she's not perfect and that strikes a cord with them. Benet cheated, lied and took her money. People don't like him for that.
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Reds
Comment: That dredlocks sh*t is so played out. Leave that sh*t to the real Rastas. From Busta, Lenny, Ricky now Eric, nigguz finally getting they head right (pun intended).
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mcalis1980
Comment: SweetieDarlin -- I was told by someone very close to the Halle camp...that David also left a long time girlfriend for Halle. That's interesting....
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FLGirl
Comment: This whole thing can be summed up short & sweet. Multiple "break-ups." Common denominator is Halle Berry.
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QueenNefertina
Comment: I do think the press is bias in Halle's favor. I mean even the title of this story is 'Eric Lashes Out' Why?, he doesn't sound angry to me... he sounds tired,.. sick and tired. Now I have no sympathy for a cheater and feel they should never prosper as a result of their cheating. But by the same token, Halle is known for appearing to change and mold herself to get the man and once she has them, she reveals her true self and expects them to conform to her 'prince charming' fantasy. She moves too fast and goes from dating to marriage in a heartbeat. Eric's career was just taking off, when she decided she 'had' to have him. Next thing you know she showing up to his concerts sportin' 'bantu knots' in her hair like she's a roots n' culture girl...LOL Pleeze... I don't feel sorry for him, falling for that fake 'ish'. He should have kept his shoes off, his locks long and told Miss Black Hollywood Princess, thanks but no thanks. Dating wasn't good enough, she had to be married, she tried that 'ish' on Shemar Moore and he was like 'Please I am just as fine as you, probably finer, I ain't marrying nobody, not even you'...LOL So she had to move on. Eric was just becoming famous, he needed a minute to enjoy it and let that groupie stuff run it's course. But no, Miss Now or Never had to be married cause she thought that guaranteed fidelity. I also understand, she didn't want him touring, but instead to follow her around holding her hand at her important hollywood events. So his career fizzled while her career soared. And like most men when their ego is wounded, he cheated to even the power dynamic. They were both wrong. India is the only innocent victim and I think Halle is less of a woman not to consider India's feelings when she bad mouths the child's father. I mean she did make this big hearts and flowers statement of how she felt India was 'her' daughter, if that was truly 'heartfelt' she would shut her mouth and try to have some type of relationship with that girl, even if it was only thru letters and presents. She does play that victim role quite well and she did do the same thing to David Justice whose 'mother' finally insisted that he defend himself which he did once in 'Ebony Man' magazine. I know the pain of having a lover cheat on you, but you also have to understand that the cheating was 'his' issue not yours, so why carry it around with 'you'? Use it to grow with and be a better person and never give up on love, thank the cheater for getting out of your way so that you can find the one who is truly for 'you'. He will be the one out in the cold, not you, if you get your head and heart/spirit right.
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Tipseone
Comment: I hear you but please no one manipulates a man into marriage ask any woman who has tried eric married her cause he wanted to and if he gave up his career its his choice. He needs to man up and let it go. Also i remember him serenading her at some black awards show so he seemed more than eager to be mr berry.
Also david justice bashed halle just as much as she bashed him i remember him saying some real foul things himself so he hardly was victimized by her they were both nasty back then
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RMP7772000
Comment: I agree with ss69054 and lovinlife. My saying is (there is my side, your side and the truth side)! When my husband cheated, he try to give me excuses why. Now the pain is over. It's been 4 years and I have moved on. He is still angry, but i'm at peace with my new own business! So the bottom line to Halle is to go get some professional help and leave her EX alone! Does this sound like Mary J. Blidge's new song? Their past just keeps staying on the front lines! There is no growth when we stay in the past pains! We all should learn from them and leave them behind!!!! All stay blessed!!!!!!!
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QueenNefertina
Comment: Tipseone- Yes, women can pressure men to get married before they are really ready. Let's be honest here. The pressure in this society for women to get married is enormous, especially as we age and want children. I am not saying that men don't want to be married at all, I think they need more time to ready themselves, while we are trained for it all our lives, men are not. Couples should be counseled before they marry and be sure it is what 'both' want at the 'same' time. Of course you cannot 'make' someone marry you, but you can pressure them to do it sooner than 'they' may have wanted, which I think is the case in both her marriages. More time and preparation was needed. Work on self must come first!
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missthang2006
Comment: Have never been a big Eric Benet fan nor am I condoning his infidelity. But I am going to have to side with Benet on this one. Agree with the poster that Halle's issues are bigger than Benet as well as any other man she has been with or the lack of having a strong father figure in her life.
At some point, she does need to let go of her resentment and move on with her life. Holding on to the resentment is going to prevent her from having a healthy relationship with anyone. Obviously, she needs more work like a lot of us in this area.
What's all the crap that she goes to a 12 step program for relationships when she still bad mouths the ex with lies and bringing up old crap like getting freaky in her X men suit with her gay boyfriend (yes I have also heard the rumors of him cruising in the Village/Christopher Street, Miami and who knows if he's hit any of the bars in West Hollywood yet) when she said the same thing about she and Benet spicing up their sex life.
If Halle wants to date a gay model she should just say so instead of playing the desparate F@# Hag thinking she's pulling the wool over someone's eyes.
Personally don't think the guy's cute and is only using her for personal gain. Please they're not getting married, nor going to have a kid together unless she pays him (sarcasm).It will be interesting to see how much longer they carry on their charade.
Sorry for the digression on her supposed boyfriend...the article is about Benet and Berry not being able to keep her mouth shut.
It's really sad that someone like Halle has to pull crap like this. She definitely needs to grow up and get her %*$! together.
Seriously, if the bit with the kid is true, what makes Halle think she will be a good mother or any court would let her adopt a child with her immaturity and suicide attempts until she has it together.
Girl again grow up and stop playing the victim card and take responsibility for your life instead of blaming others for your unhappiness. Happiness comes from within and not on external circumstances.
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sweetpea
Comment: I believe Eric. As beautiful as Halle is, I think she has some "issues". David Justice has made comments as well about her insecurities.
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shag11
Comment: I think Halle better shutup. Let this be a lesson to all you women: Anytime you are attracted to a man who loves the mirror more than you do, you're in trouble.
I have seen it at the gym I workout at. Women are attracted to the guys who strut and stroll, more than they workout. Once they hit it, and they leave the lady, she can't figure out what happen.
Halle, go get you one of those big ol' country boys out of the deep south, help hime to come along socially, and you may have a shot at a real relationship.
If not, you are relegated to much of the same. I see it repeatedly.
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todaysgirl
Comment: It just kills me that Halle isn't more mature about all of this. He cheated. It was wrong. He's taken accountability for his actions and sought counsel. Why does she find it necessary to still be talking about it when she's obviously moved on. Why make yourself look bad by bringing up all this mess!?! Let it go honey....(gee, I wonder why Eric's album didn't do well....)
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mcalis1980
Comment: I just read and I believe I also saw it on Oprah. That Nate (Oprah's designer guy) was asked by Halle, either jokingly or in a serious manner, to possibly be a sperm donor for her. Apparently she figured he would be the perfect choice since he's gay. According to Nate, Halle said he would be perfect since he would likely not want any dealings with the child. Implying, since he's gay he would allow Halle to raise the child alone. Apparently his response to Halle was he would want dealings with the child and he pretty much thought it was ridiculous for her to think otherwise. So I guess with Halle not getting the proper response from Nate, she moved on to Gabriel. Also, according to Nate, Halle and her mom liked his look. And I must say, although Nate is shorter than Gabriel, they do have a similar look. So I guess it's settled. Halle wants a baby by a blonde haired, blue eyed man. Halle, please get it together. You are really starting to lose some cool points and starting to gain some crazy points. Pray for that woman!
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missthang2006
Comment: MC---Still say she's not going to have the model's baby. She's probably going to dump him in the near future because of all the negative publicity with the Benet comment %*$! up and other blog/article comment sites tearing her a new %*$!(@!.
As whacked as she is, she still cares more about her (tarnished) reputation or what's left of it. What a great role model.
Aubry's not going to be in the picture for much longer and no she's not going to have his baby now that the secret is out.
It still blows me away she thought she could get away with it.
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mcalis1980
Comment: But I will say this...Halle and Nate do have something in common. They are both dating a white male model. And I'm not trying to be funny...but Nate's man also looks like Halle's "new man." Here's the link.
http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/753/1613/1600/jeffr ey%20brezovar.jpg
Jeffrey Bresovar is Nate's boyfriend's name.
I told ya'll those white male models have a similar look. In fact, I thought this was Halle's man for a minute...now that would be crazy.
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mcalis1980
Comment: Okay the previous link does not seem to work...so here's another link. I found this because I was just curious to see whether he would look like Gabriel and I think I was right. Oh and surprise! Apparently Nate's boyfriend, according to this blog, is a sperm donor!!! LOL!
http://celeboganda.blogspot.com/2005/10/too-much-manhe im-for-camryn.html
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mcalis1980
Comment: Oh well...both links don't seem to work. You'll just have to google his name if you are interested. Sorry...
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Name:
mcalis1980
Comment: Okay...this is it for me. But for those interested. If you google the term "Jeffrey Brezovar and Nate" and then scroll down to celeboganda you will see the picture I saw.
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hulove
Comment: For all of you speculating about Aubrey...I'm not sure what he is, or who he does LOL! But here is an article describing him as an "androgynous" type model. WOW! And we all know what that means. If not, then look it up. And the last photos on the page -- speak for themselves. Good pick Halle (being sarcastic!)
http://www.celebritymalemodels.com/models/gabriel_aubr y/bio.php
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hulove
Comment: Also my opinion on Halle. She kills me...in the Washington Post she brags about not really being Hollywood and not really having celebrity friends. But yet she seems to ONLY DATE CELEBRITIES! I don't think I've ever seen someone speak so much out of both sides of their mouth. I guess this is similar to when she said she was moving on from Eric two years ago...yet mentions the Eric situation again in an article this month. Come on Halle, get it together!
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hulove
Comment: D*MN I thought I was finished! But you know how it is when you forget to mention something...any ERIC BENET WILL BE ON LARRY KING THIS SAT.!!!! I read he is going to perform a song from his latest album with David Foster ("The Last Time") -- now listening to that song, which I think is hot in an old school flavor type style --- it sounds like he's talking about Halle. So perhaps that will be a topic of discussion on Larry, who knows!! I hope so, I personally would like to know more about Halle the "non-victim" because this victim stuff is getting old and personally starting to sound dishonest on her part!
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themusiclady
Comment: I agree with Eric..... I mean, move on, that's what most people do, when they divorce. They move on. And why keep telling the media all your business?
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Name:
themusiclady
Comment: (to hulove)
I love his music, his voice, and the new song is just so romantic... he surely has talent, and most of all, "he's a 'humanbeing'..... I respect everything the man said, and the only reason he said that much, is because of his ex.... she needs to move on.... but maybe she heard the new song, and said, "Dang, why? why?, I want that man so much?" (LOL)
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hulove
Comment: (to themusiclady) LOL! Yeah...she probably does think about him. His music is good. If it weren't for all of this negative publicity on him...I think the CD would have done better. Pretty Baby is off the hook!
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missthang2
Comment: So you think Halle will really call in on Larry King if Eric Benet comments further on her being a liar?
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Name:
missthang2006
Comment: hulove...quit spreading rumors, Eric Benet was on the Larry King show on June 24th, Michael Bolton and Nicolette Sheridan are on tonight unless it's a repeat.
guess I jumped the gun on that one, sorry.
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hulove
Comment: He put it out on myspace that he would be on Larry King Live this weekend (he sent it June 29th). I actually sent him a message asking him if he meant last week because I saw the same posting...but he probably gets a lot of messages. He has not responded. We'll wait and see!
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Name:
Tipseone
Comment: Yup but going on larry king to talk about HAlle again and to talk about the album that you focused on her again is not beatiing a dead damn horse he is using this relationship for personal gain just as much if not more than she is he is jsut mad she did a better job at gettign her side across. He is your typical passive aggressive man who met his match in passive aggessivness with his ex wife. He needs to move on. Also like i said before no one was talking about or reading about taht in touch article he has brought more attention to it himself what a piece of work
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Name:
EBEffect
Comment: Seems the general orientation of the comments I've read show that Eric Benet has moved on. Also seems that Halle Berry hasn't.
Maybe there's a rehab facility for 'addiction to Eric.'
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Name:
missthang2
Comment: Didn't watch the Larry King show, but I heard he conducted himself accordingly.
Yep it looks like Benet has moved on and Halle hasn't. She knows she's probably #$!@%&^ up with her recent comments and recent bashing of the bf as a result of her actions. If she didn't her camp would issued a statement or retraction.
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Name:
missthang2006
Comment: Still in denial about fooling everyone in passing off the her gay boytoy as straight and everything is A-OK and they're not effected by the comments on the posts. Check out the photos on today's Egotastic--what a crock of %*$!. Halle when are you going to wake up and grow up
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Name:
missthang2006
Comment: LMAO--Here's the latest: Can you say Halle and her publicist are doing damage contol with the doctored photos from splashnews.com of Halle looking knocked up by her gayboytoy.
Halle Berry is not pregnant or at least to the best of my knowledge at the present time--can you say Photoshop?
Regardless of wishing her the best whenever she has a child, she is not pregnant looking a little bloated or gained a little weight--that's how rumors get started . I will believe it when she confirms it.
Saw the original photos several days ago on www.splashnews.com/index2 (not sure what the current page is now) of her in similar pictures with the caption that she's put on a little weight nothing more nothing less.
In recent photos of her on various sites including yahoo.com or newscom.com (maybe page 5-7, not sure with the splashnews.com photos of her from last month being re-circulated as pointed out to me by splashnews.com of her surveying her building site and her in Miami with Aubry doing golf and dinner) showing her in Tokyo on the 13th-14th for the X3 premiere, she didn't look pregnant in the press conference photos in tight jeans or the sleek tight fitting dress and new hairdo or wig--check the photos.
She doesn't look pg in those photos at all. Nice try!
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